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benevolentdiety

The coming and goings of souls in our lives....

Nov 23, 2005 05:05

Its been a busy past few days. The cause , is of the worst heart breaking kind. Last night, at about 9:50, Melinda Rinde passed away. James was at her side, and I was on my way there as fast as traffic would allow, even covering the 75 miles in 45 minutes I wasn't quite fast enough. James handled her passing well, I think he was relieved she ( Read more... )

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dverning November 23 2005, 21:20:32 UTC

Sorry I didn't know you were in town. Not like I've had the time to visit, but... I have seen James several times over the last few days. He's been a wreck and it's been work picking him back up. But hey, that's what friends are for, no?
And is this Frank of Frankie and Cheryl?

benevolentdiety November 24 2005, 05:52:24 UTC

Yep, that Frank. Guess Sheryl got the hots for a student of hers. A 17 year old student at the time(20 now). She lied about it, thought Frank was stupid. He set up the ole pc to record the phone calls. Got some 200 hours of conversations.

He should have gotten full custody, but he didn't want to take the kids away from their mom. She straight up lied about it til the end- then he played a recording of a conversation-and it went to "Please don't take my kids" SoHe's got a house in Benson, stuck there for now due to joint custody arrangement. Has his Dojo, might buy ouy his dads restaraunt.

He handled seeing me alright, kinda neutral I guess, but he didn't have alot of time to process it, so did well given that.

peligrosaroja November 24 2005, 05:48:45 UTC

Ah, shit.

Nothing like a death in the family to make someone get over their issues, huh?
(yes, that means I'm going to call him)

peligrosaroja November 24 2005, 05:50:28 UTC

Oh, and Tod?
Yeah, dillhole.

I hope you stick it to him good next time he's an ass.
Which should be soon, knowing him.

benevolentdiety November 24 2005, 05:58:11 UTC

Well, the next time I see him his wife wil likely be there, so he'll probably behave. But it needs to be addressed anyway as it wasn't the time for it. If he thinks I was wrong to come as I did he should have talked to me about it off to the side, not made an obnoxious issue about it that everyone else noticed. FFS-hes not going to embarass me, the waitresses looked at him like he was retarded....

I'm hoping he meant well and is just misguided.

artimese December 1 2005, 08:10:01 UTC

Hey, Tell James I said 'HI' and that he has my condolences.