Future plans

[bensmith05]

Im sitting here(the Stern Library) at 7:50 in the morning, the time i usally take to study, and im totally bored. So...Im updating my live journal! I just want to throw some questions out and see what everyones feelings are on them. I just read Brittney Peoples' Live Journal and she says that she is feeling really lonely. Does anyone else feel this

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miss you too

[shado16]

i wouldnt want to do a long distance relationship, but i know me and nat could make it through it. she was telling me that her parents went to diff. colleges and stayed together and marrired to this day, but it would still suck alot not being able to see each other much, it would make cheating more temting i think
miss ya bunches,
matt

Re: miss you too

[bensmith05]

well if your 100 miles away... it aint cheating -_^.

you boy

[edgeofnight]

you're gay.
& i think i could handle a long distance relationship. matt's sister and her fiance are doing it right now. he lives in bahrain (which is right around saudi arabia (http://www.ksafe.com/profiles/c_maps/bahrain.gif). that is a long way away.
long distance would be incredibly hard, as matt's sister is kind of depressed right now, but in the end i think it would be worth it if you stick with the person through it. it just makes you stronger.

Re: you boy

[shado16]

absense makes the heart grow fonder

[fairon17]

If the relationship is meant to be, then a long distance relationship will work out. It would be hell to go through one though.

[bensmith05]

indeed, its hard to resist temptation of cheating...

[la_bam]

I have this thing about long distance relationships.

If you're young, take a break. Not a "I want to date other people break" but a break. Still talk on the phone, still miss each other. Lose the pressure. It's hard to feel like you're living your life under the strain of someone you can't even see very often. It makes people bitter and sometimes feel the need to cheat, to vent their frustration.

Just wait for each other. When people come back from where ever they've been, sometimes it's difficult to go back to the way things once were, or for things to even continue at all. Don't expect things, just trust.

If it's meant to be then it will be.

It's different for married or almost married people. High school and college age people are still growing, so they're more apt to change.

[bensmith05]

what if you wait for someone for 4 years and then it doesnt work out? then you wasted 4 years of your life and you could have let 'the one' slip by

[la_bam]

well what if you try to make it work for 4 years and it doesnt work out?

same difference.