So I looked it up, but I don't understand why it would be relevant unless you are planning on having children together. Otherwise why look into your genes?
I had seen reference to this, but had not noticed the term "allele". The following comments, originally on UKPoly, were posted to a discussion list I am on
>> it proves nothing about sexual fidelity (which also doesn't >> necessarily mean monogamy). > > Yes, this hones in on the key problem that I have with this article. > There is an implicit assumption of a dichotomy between the > "faithfully monogamous" and the "commitment phobe". No other > possiblities are really discussed. > > Speaking as somebody who has been in the same relationship for my > entire adult life (fourteen years now) _and_ has been polyamorous > for the past eleven years... well, neither of those suits really fit > all that well! > > One of the inherent challenges to scientific research is framing the > correct initial questions. I see no reason why biology should not > account for why some people are "hardwired" mono or poly... but the > approach discussed here seems inherently flawed.
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>> it proves nothing about sexual fidelity (which also doesn't
>> necessarily mean monogamy).
>
> Yes, this hones in on the key problem that I have with this article.
> There is an implicit assumption of a dichotomy between the
> "faithfully monogamous" and the "commitment phobe". No other
> possiblities are really discussed.
>
> Speaking as somebody who has been in the same relationship for my
> entire adult life (fourteen years now) _and_ has been polyamorous
> for the past eleven years... well, neither of those suits really fit
> all that well!
>
> One of the inherent challenges to scientific research is framing the
> correct initial questions. I see no reason why biology should not
> account for why some people are "hardwired" mono or poly... but the
> approach discussed here seems inherently flawed.
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