Comments | bentbender: A celebration of life

bentbender

A celebration of life

Feb 22, 2008 14:26

Rayn's services will be completely informal.

Time: 2:30pm
Date: Saturday, March 1st, 2008
Location :Eugene, Oregon
Address :494 W 10th Ave 97401-2882 (10th & Washington)

Anyone is welcome to come.
If you plan on it, let me know, (and how many) just to make sure we have the right amount of catering.

Thank you all,
Trebor

Comments 5

tmonsta February 23 2008, 00:43:43 UTC

I am planning on coming, plus one. It's so weird to see Rayn's face on here but know it's not him blogging. Thanks for the info Trebor.

My thoughts are with you.

Rayn Death anonymous February 24 2008, 06:02:10 UTC

Trebor- I cannot begin to tell you of the sadness I felt when Chris called me to tell me of what happened. I would like to be at the Memorial.
adam in honolulu

kittybat February 26 2008, 06:57:39 UTC

Trebor- me + 1. If you know of anyone who needs a ride down from PDX, let me know. I have room for 2 more.

Ride to Eugene bentbender February 27 2008, 19:09:00 UTC

I'm glad you're coming.
There are a few people who are taking train/bus that have asked about carpooling.
Depending on when you're leaving I could fill up your car.
If you're going down Saturday, Steve, and my roommate Dave could both use rides. If you're going down early like Friday Gretchen and I. Give me a ring and we can figure it out.
541.868.6610

I just realized I don't even know real name...

My beautiful son anonymous February 26 2008, 21:42:01 UTC

All of you that know Rayn know he often mentioned his mom. Well, that's me. I loved my son so much no one could imagine the pain I feel. The loss I feel. I didn't care if he had blue hair, green hair or no hair. I could have cared less if he was gay or what ever. I never wanted him to be unhappy that was it. He loved so many. He knew how to really care about the as he called them, "the forgotten people". I would find it a comfort if you wanted to send me a blog. I am at sereneami. If he loved you, so do I. He as a very special person and never forgot to tell me he loved me. I say this to all...
A LOVING HEART WAS GENTLY SILENCED MY THE HAND OF GOD. While he was in a coma and in the hospital I was able, along with his family, to hold him, sing to him and softly rub his little head. The pain of this loss is so great I don't think I will ever heal. What ever you do, please please please take care of yourselves, and NEVER live in danger. Love, Rayn's MOM