...you know, I didn't ask you to stop sending pictures. I was just surprised by how many there were. I don't know why you took that as me not wanting to see any more, especially when you seemed to miss the last few things I said before you signed off.
You know, I don't avoid you. I just have no idea of whether or not you'll be online when I message you. Quite a few times, I say hello and then I never get a response before I sign off. Maybe you're not at the computer. Just tonight, your name came up-and when I welcomed you back, it wasn't you, and they signed off a second after. Maybe you're not available. But I have to say, I don't appreciate being regarded as a bad friend when I try to have a conversation and you're not even there.
Yeah, I have to agree with Benor on this one. I have tried, and all I've gotten in response is ignored. Every time I see you we're all going on about how we should keep in better touch, how we miss each other, et cetera and soforth. And then we part ways and we never talk. In fact, it seems like the only time you ever even IM is when you want my goddamn music files. Hence why I got so mad at you that one time. You wanna stay friends? Make an effort. Think you're making an effort? Obviously not. Either talk to me or don't talk to me--fine. But don't start up a fucking conversation, acting like you're really interested in talking to me, and then leave for twenty minutes or just ignore me because you're reading some damn fanfiction. You could at least let me know what's going on instead of leaving me hanging
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First off, Katt and Galish, this wasn't directed at you two. I know you work, Galish, and Katt, you're not at home, you're in Indiana so it wasn't directed at you, either.
As for you, Greg, I never logged off last night until nine thirty or so, and I never got anything back or IMed. I also didn't get any replies to any of the ::checks logs:: five IMs I sent you after I'd said I was going to reheat dinner. Also, I didn't log back on after I got off in the first place. I wasn't calling you a bad friend, exactly, I was simply saying that I guess we aren't, anymore. Because NEITHER of us act like it. It wasn't directed JUST at you, it was directed at ME, too. As for not being on, I don't have my own internet. At all. I have access at the school, which doesn't include AIM, and access when I trek forty minutes outside of town, so I'm sorry I haven't been on as often as you might like.
Right after you said you were going to make some dinner, you were logged off on my screen. And other than what I mentioned, I didn't see you again for the rest of the night.
I, as one of those friends who got busy with life and seemed to forget that the internet EXISTED, understand where you're coming from and why you might be mad. Hell, I haven't been on AIM longer than 30 minutes for probably a year now >>; And I'm more or less dead to the boards, except when I make my once-a-month post. I'm just so friggin BUSY nowadays... So perhaps some understanding should leek both ways, eh? *hugs* I hope you feel better and resolve things for yourself :3
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You know, I don't avoid you. I just have no idea of whether or not you'll be online when I message you. Quite a few times, I say hello and then I never get a response before I sign off. Maybe you're not at the computer. Just tonight, your name came up-and when I welcomed you back, it wasn't you, and they signed off a second after. Maybe you're not available. But I have to say, I don't appreciate being regarded as a bad friend when I try to have a conversation and you're not even there.
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I'm still around, I just don't stay on AIM all the time, I work 7:30am to 6pm mom-fri
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As for you, Greg, I never logged off last night until nine thirty or so, and I never got anything back or IMed. I also didn't get any replies to any of the ::checks logs:: five IMs I sent you after I'd said I was going to reheat dinner. Also, I didn't log back on after I got off in the first place.
I wasn't calling you a bad friend, exactly, I was simply saying that I guess we aren't, anymore. Because NEITHER of us act like it. It wasn't directed JUST at you, it was directed at ME, too.
As for not being on, I don't have my own internet. At all. I have access at the school, which doesn't include AIM, and access when I trek forty minutes outside of town, so I'm sorry I haven't been on as often as you might like.
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So perhaps some understanding should leek both ways, eh? *hugs* I hope you feel better and resolve things for yourself :3
*runs off to work before she's late*
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