So, There's This Guy.....

[bethmonkey]

I met a guy at Radio Shack about a month or so ago. I guess we knew each other peripherally when we were younger, because he played hockey with my closest hockey buddy's little brother. We keep running into each other at the gym, thanks to my new obsession with body building and his new hobby, boxing. I definitely find him aesthetically pleasing

Comments

[passer_hedera]

I think letting things play out as they will is a good idea...I mean, yeah, he's not exactly your type, as defined by what you're inclined to, and there may be all sorts of bad reasons...but there may be all sorts of good reasons too, and ultimately, if you just go with what makes you happy and fulfilled, you're likely to end up in a good space. Just make sure you're honest with him along the way, and trust him to take care of himself too.

Emotions and attractions are such a bizarre thing. In my life, it's always been the relationships where I planned out who I was gonna be with and how it was gonna go that went horribly, horribly bad. The ones I fell into had moments, but really, I don't regret a one of them.

[bethmonkey]

Thanks very much for your advice. I find it very wise and plan to use it.

[forceonature]

You're into who you're into, don't worry so much about fitting into categories.