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bethy_beth

All I Want

Jan 11, 2006 17:24

All I want is to find someone to care for who truly cares for me also. Someone who is self-aware enough to know what they feel and has enough decency to be honest about it. Is that too much to ask ( Read more... )

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simbiani82 January 12 2006, 01:26:09 UTC

I guess mine would read "Fangurl in Angst hoping for her Happy Anything"... or something like that... lmao. And no, it's not too much too ask. Heck, I'm all those things. LoL.
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doctorteeth January 12 2006, 03:43:17 UTC

Your Westley will come for you. Patience, my dear!

bethy_beth January 12 2006, 03:51:56 UTC

Ah, Westley! ♥

wudu_wasa January 12 2006, 04:12:46 UTC

Ah yes, the age old philosophy of "better safe than sorry". I suppose you're looking for commitment then?

bethy_beth January 12 2006, 04:25:54 UTC

Of course. A relationship that doesn't lead to commitment could be a learning experience, but it's certainly not what I would aim for.

belladonna895 January 13 2006, 03:06:01 UTC

Charm is most certainly over-rated, but...good men are hard to find.

bethy_beth January 14 2006, 11:21:13 UTC

True.

origamigrl January 13 2006, 20:33:16 UTC

Ah, I know the feeling... I truly care for you, but I'm sure it's not in the way you're looking for. LOL!

As belladonna said, true, good men are rare in this day and age. And most of charm is superficial, anyways.You have to see a person's heart and be charmed by it for things to last. Goodness, I could go on and on, but I should be doing my o-chem lab. :P

I would HIGHLY suggest that you read Authentic Beauty, by Leslie Ludy, and I Kissed Dating Goodbye, by Joshua Harris. I've got a private blog babbling about AB and love/world/faith-related issues, if you want me to send you a few entries. If you read the book, that is, otherwise it'll be pretty random...

As for IKDG I don't necessarily endorse chopping dating out of your life - that's probably too drastic, but it has a TON of good advice on building relationships properly and keeping yourself pure for the one you will marry. I think I overdosed on these types of books over winter vacation, so my advice is fresh ( ... )

bethy_beth January 14 2006, 11:26:24 UTC

I'll look up Authentic Beauty on amazon.com some time. I'll look up I Kissed Dating Goodbye also, but I don't intend on actually kissing it goodbye on purpose. lol.

I make too many blogs, I know. hehe. The other one is different, though. It's like a newsletter aimed mostly at friends and family who I don't have much contact with, especially those who don't come to my LJ or MySpace or anything.