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[betsyliscious]

how do you deal with a boyfriend that when he is stressed and going thru alot, he pushes you away and says he will eventually come around?  It really hurts alot.  Do I have a right to be offended?  I tried to tell him that and he just was like that is how I deal with stress.  I hate it soooo much.

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[sparklz235]

Hey hun, I know it's hard, but I'm sorry to say that that's how I deal with things too. Sometimes I just need to be stressed myself, get away from things, figure things out and then I'll be good again. Sometimes I feel that if I'm moody adn Dan tries to help it doesn't work and then it just gets him moody and I still just want to be alone, lol. It's hard but just keep letting him know that you're there for him. *hugs*

[betsyliscious]

Thanks Julie! You are right. I guess I get that way too when I am stressed or sad. I just do not see that way. Its hard to watch him sad and not be able to hug. I guess I just feel like he should cry on my shoulder not alone.