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[bevhills]

It's funny how long it's taken me to fully get over Jai. I feel a lot better now that he's not always on my mind, although I wish I had someone to think about now the way I thought about him when I saw him as more then a friend. He called me the other day, and was on about how things were/use to be and in my mind I'm thinking how weird it is that

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[dreamsandtears]

that's totally normal not to find him attractive anymore.
that's why i broke up with my last boyfriend.
and just because he was an absolute jerk.

i'm up for the interest meme! ♥

[sublimylife]

I think its strange how we latch on to certain people at different points in our lives. Like you needed this guy for part of your life and he was important for you, but it was just so you could learn something about yourself. Now you are over and moving on. Apparently if he is still trying to "lure you back" then he hasn't moved on and it seems like there is always one person holding on. I am that person in a relationship with a girl. I have been holding on for 10 years. I know we will never work out and I still hold onto hope because as much as she doesn't want it to happen she is human and lets me back in every once in a while. But your feelings are normal and there is nothing wrong with them. And thats coming from the guy who is on the other side of this scenario ;P

[lustreglass]

It's totally normal to feel that way. I am extremely unattracted to my ex right now. It's so weird. It happens, heh!

[hippietart]

That's how I always used to feel with Blair, he always seemed to have me on a string, and always lured me back because of the little ray of hope he always had about us. I don't find him attractive anymore, I guess when I see him in a different way, I realize that I couldn't ever of dated him. He's great, and he's going what he loves to do and I hope he's happy, but i've finally realized that after 3 1/2 years, he's not for me.