I really wish I could give you advice, but I FAIL FAIL FAIL at relationships, so I don't know if anything I say will help. But, um, I guess you're dating. Ask her to hang out a few more times - casually, of course, but with language that's nonspecific to either dating or being friends, if that makes sense. And, uh, see what happens? If all else fails, I guess you can always try alcohol....but don't do that. It's probably an epically bad idea.
But, um, good luck with her and good luck with NaNo and I hope you adjust to your meds soon!
I AM FAILING AT NANO TOO. I'm having a lot of family shit going on right now (lol, happened this time last year too...oh my life), and I currently...only have 2200 words. Instead of 5100. OOPS.
haha, that sounds like my life! Something similar happened to me with a friend, except it was more about whether or not we wanted to hook up with each other than about dating. IT WAS AWKS, but mostly because I didn't do anything; I'm always scared of putting myself out there. So basically I cannot help you! I WISH YOU A LOT OF LUCK THOUGH hot awesome girls are obvs the bestest..
2200 is... 1000 more than I have. FAIL TIMES. Isn't it amazing how family crap always crops up whenever you have something you're supposed to be doing? Families have the worst timing, I swear.
Whoo failing at NaNo! I have like 1700 words or something right now. Stupid roommate had to choose November to unexpectedly move and give me less than 2 weeks to find a new place and move out.
Wish I could help but hell I dated a guy for 3 months without ever realizing it was actually dating. I only figured it out when we got drunk and slept together.
BUT MY ADVICE MIGHT BE REALLY BAD. you guys are kind of dating, i'm pretty sure. flirt? ask her to dinner again, and not in like a "let's grab dinner" way? i don't know, sorry.
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If all else fails, I guess you can always try alcohol....but don't do that. It's probably an epically bad idea.
But, um, good luck with her and good luck with NaNo and I hope you adjust to your meds soon!
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haha, that sounds like my life! Something similar happened to me with a friend, except it was more about whether or not we wanted to hook up with each other than about dating. IT WAS AWKS, but mostly because I didn't do anything; I'm always scared of putting myself out there. So basically I cannot help you! I WISH YOU A LOT OF LUCK THOUGH hot awesome girls are obvs the bestest..
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I WISH YOU LUCK TOO!
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Wish I could help but hell I dated a guy for 3 months without ever realizing it was actually dating. I only figured it out when we got drunk and slept together.
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BUT MY ADVICE MIGHT BE REALLY BAD. you guys are kind of dating, i'm pretty sure. flirt? ask her to dinner again, and not in like a "let's grab dinner" way? i don't know, sorry.
BUT I BELIEVE IN YOU, YOU ARE AWESOME.
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