Ugh

[bichick126]

Ok, so a friend of mine (or at least I consider her a friend), has been warning me about my girlfriend. Telling me that I shouldn't be in this relationship

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[redbatlives]

Just break up with her. Don't keep the poor girl is a false relationship that she thinks is going to go somewhere,but in reality it isn't. it isn't fair for you to give a girl hope when you are just going to crush it... if she hurts herself it is her fault she is unstable not yours.

[superdooper]

On the one hand, there's nothing wrong with just a casual relationship where there's no intense "falling" required, and you don't necessarily love the person, but like them a lot and such. However, most relationships that are anything at all need the whole can't-get-enough-of-you stage, and with her living so far away that might not happen. Distance sucks, and it only has a chance if something is established first. So I say, decide what you want (because you're not going to just BOOM! find a meaningful relationship right away--it takes time to build it), and decide if the distance works. And if she's going to hurt herself if you break up with her, that's probably not someone you want to be with and it's her own problem if she does.

There we go, relationship advice from the hopelessly single. Enjoy!

[bichick126]

Hehe, Thank you Ashley!!!

I just can't do the whole, I'm in Boston she's in Noho, I only get to see her every 2 weeks (if I'm extremely lucky), and I can't get into it.

She fell so fast, is what worries me.

Ugh, long distance relationships suck..