it's all so confusing

[big_noyze]

when one door seemingly closes and your glad it's shut...should it remain shut forever? if an opportunity re-presents itself to you, should you go for it again? what happens if what you thought happened really didn't and what did happen was nothing that you thought it could be? and where do you go when roads that were closed as recently as two

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[reciprokate]

You can always talk to us if you'd like...since we don't know her, we may be able to offer some objectivity.

[big_noyze]

well you know basically what happened before...

and now this...and i have no real idea of where to proceed...i missed you at church this morning

[reciprokate]

Well, your entry was a bit cryptic but I gather she's come asking after another chance?

You're right. People can change. Under these circumstances though, I would give it time. Your heart is too valuable to be trampled on and abused. Her 'devotion' should take the test of time. No games - just her turn for pursual. I wouldn't commit to a relationship with this girl again so soon; and definitely not without some clear terms.

jumping into the fray...

[queenjadis]

...Just because I can, whether I should open my fat trap or not.
Hi Blair.
Mary's advice is good. I also noticed you mentioned that now "she" seems that she is exactly what you want - sounds a little iffy. People are what people are -- whether two people have enough bridges to sustain a relationship with the other's character is the question. However, if supposedly this chic had a major flaw (I'm guessing one in which she devastated you), well Mary and I can just have her "taken care of." But, as Mary is advising, time tells all.
But, don't listen to me... I was just jumping in anyways. It's 110 degrees out; figured I could liven it up a bit.

[maligclbkd16]

I'm sorry Blair. girls suck don't they? We're evil. But gay men are way too horny and let it get in the way of their relationships, so I don't know if that would be easier.