well the way i look at it is the same way..im really uncomfortable with parents..usually they hate me at first because im too quiet..but I think youre like me in the fact that you think if you talk, you might say the wrong things, it takes a long time for parents to like someone especially when they are quiet at first...its like you want them to like you so much but you cant say anything without knowing anything about them.
Well usually when you first parents they like to ask you a lot of questions, which helps conversation and lets you brag about made-up stuff to impress them in a humble tone of voice. Then they will most likely be in love with you. Now you never have to talk to them again, besides the usual "Hi, how are you?" yada yadas.
For some reason parents are the ONLY people I like meeting. I normally hate any social situation, even talking on the phone. But parents are cool. I guess I'm retarded.
No... not retarded. I have a level of social anxiety as well, but it goes ape shit around parents mostly.
My question in reply to your comment however, is what if the parents DONT ask a million questions? I mean, what then? Do i speak up and just start bragging about myself even if they dont ask cause then id probalby be viewed as cocky and conceited and they'll hate me.
I dunno... All i do know is that the more i think about this situation, the less i want to be a parent.
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Couldnt have said it better.
Thanks man.
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For some reason parents are the ONLY people I like meeting. I normally hate any social situation, even talking on the phone. But parents are cool. I guess I'm retarded.
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My question in reply to your comment however, is what if the parents DONT ask a million questions? I mean, what then? Do i speak up and just start bragging about myself even if they dont ask cause then id probalby be viewed as cocky and conceited and they'll hate me.
I dunno...
All i do know is that the more i think about this situation, the less i want to be a parent.
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