ok, I just have a few short things to say to summarize what's going on in my head, in an effort to somehow squeeze it OUT So I can repress these thoughts that I don't want to have
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If you want the crush out of your system, tell her. Just do it. Trust me, it will make you feel much better. And if she doesn't want you, well at least it is out of your system and you can move on.
Always use the truth. Why not go back and right what you said? That too, will make you feel better.
And why take revenge on Sara? If you really don't care about her, don't let what she does get to you. You'll wind up being strong.
I appreciate the comment, thanks! Just in response about the why take revenge on sara... it would be to teach her that she can't just take advantage of "lesser" beings, in other words, people she considers below herself. Not only that, but for self respect, because I've been sitting around taking it for months.
about the crush thing... I don't think about it that easily either. Telling her, especially if she doesn't want me, could potentially ruin any relationship we have at the moment. And if i can't have her as a gf... I want her as a friend, at least. But i'm considering it. btw... just wondering... who is this?
If you do take revenge on her, you are stooping to her level. Take the strong road and show her that you can defy her powers, if you catch my drift. Girls like strong men, physically and mentally.
About the crush, do as you wish. Why not take the chance? You can't learn without trying.
that's what I keep a journal for... too keep strong :) it really helps a lot--in this case, I just felt like venting. I don't keep any private entries or anything like that either, I like to be honest as often as possible... in other words, I don't keep secrets unless they'll hurt someone else or me... or both. haha this is like a journal entry in itself. Anyways, even though I don't know who this is... I really really appreciate the help, and I know that you're right. I shouldn't take revenge... i've always sorta known that. Sometimes its hard to supress it though--and you helped. And the crush thing--i think you're right about that too. I think i'm going to go for that soon. I mean, if she doesn't really like me as a friend even at this point, then I guess i won't really lose anything right? haha ok i'm overanalyzing myself now... but that's ok. I'm gonna go work out a bit, but thanks for everything ms. ananymous!
we all have our bad days ben yours just happens to last longer then others....well were getting together when I get back from VT and we'll chill and talk and all that good stuff. I'll ttyl
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Always use the truth. Why not go back and right what you said? That too, will make you feel better.
And why take revenge on Sara? If you really don't care about her, don't let what she does get to you. You'll wind up being strong.
Good luck, Ben.
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about the crush thing... I don't think about it that easily either. Telling her, especially if she doesn't want me, could potentially ruin any relationship we have at the moment. And if i can't have her as a gf... I want her as a friend, at least. But i'm considering it.
btw... just wondering... who is this?
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Take the strong road and show her that you can defy her powers, if you catch my drift. Girls like strong men, physically and mentally.
About the crush, do as you wish. Why not take the chance? You can't learn without trying.
Again, good luck.
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I'm just not going to tell you because I think it is good that I'm giving you advice anonymously.
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