Help? Advice?

[opaloctober]

So I don't know how much longer I can take this things have been going great with my hubby and i, and we celebrate our 9 year anniversary in august. its been going great but I really miss getting attention from women and it felt like this in so long it feel like a part of me is missing and I feel like lm missing something. It almost hurts. I long

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[mslivewire]

Erotic literature, fantasy, and masterbating helps me a lot. Not sure how you feel about online flirting, but its safe, can be fun, and isnt considered cheating in my relationship. I would recommend reading "Opening Up" by Tristian Tariamo - might give you some more answers on talking to hubs about how you feel.

[skittish_derby]

can you ask your husband if he would mind if you went out to go get attention from women?

[creativeread80]

Yeah i have felt this. It's off and on for me. Sometimes i want a women and other times i am grossed out. But for me it's not that i want to be with a woman like in a relationship. I just want to fuck her and then be done. I only like women for the sex. They turn me on. I want to eat pussy. I dont want to watch a movie, cuddle or eat dinner. Just want sex. My bf isnt into sharing. I would think being with my own gender wotuldnt cause him to be jealous. I wouldnt care if he went a fucked a dude. He sees me as spending time with that person. I see it as fucking and forgetting about her.

So yeah, i pine for a woman. But only for that aspect. What do i do? Look at porno and fantasize and masterbate. I don't want to go out and find a woman cuz he would consider it cheating and i dont want to lose him.