if I ever happen to come across another "Angelina" I'm phucking keeping her. Notice the quotations. I don't mean another person with the same name, I mean someone that is interested in me like she was
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My 2 cents, for what it's worth...empatheticcrushJune 9 2009, 20:11:06 UTC
It could be subconscious, it's hard to say.
As cliche as this is going to sound you have to work on you first. I find a lot of couples have problems when they are two incomplete people with issues independently coming together thinking they can fix each other or fill the gaps. The thing is, while that works for a while, it creates an unhealthy co-dependence in the relationship.
The healthiest thing to do is work on you, come to a place where you are happy alone, where you don't need anyone to feel fulfilled. It's never a good idea to need someone, instead become a whole person on your one, that way whoever you eventually find is complimentary to your life. Where you don't need them but you want them in your life because they accent everything, though you could live without them
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"In the end I feel it's more honest, I'd rather know when he's doing something with me, he genuinely wants to be there, not simply there to appease me. Above all, he's my friend and I respect him, I'd never want to make him uncomfortable or put him out (and I'd guess that's mutual)." This is very key and one of the two big problems I had with Aimee. I knew you commented on a bunch of my stuff but I didn't you commented on this latest stuff cause my recent comments by people list only goes up to ten or something and then it cuts off. But I completly agree with you on all of this and I've been working on me for years. The last 2 girlfriends I've had pretty much had no lives of their own when I met them.... actually all the GF's I've had were like that. lol It's not healthy.
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I feel ya brotha :(
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p.s. I would have came out to your family gala but Tom didn't answer his phone.
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As cliche as this is going to sound you have to work on you first. I find a lot of couples have problems when they are two incomplete people with issues independently coming together thinking they can fix each other or fill the gaps. The thing is, while that works for a while, it creates an unhealthy co-dependence in the relationship.
The healthiest thing to do is work on you, come to a place where you are happy alone, where you don't need anyone to feel fulfilled. It's never a good idea to need someone, instead become a whole person on your one, that way whoever you eventually find is complimentary to your life. Where you don't need them but you want them in your life because they accent everything, though you could live without them ( ... )
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