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[biskis]

i try to be postive and its a very hard thing to do. I went to Laseredge today to paint the arena which is fun to paint in the black light. I had a vistor while i was there. It was one of the guys girlfriend showed up to keep me company.she helped me paint a bit and we bullshited and laughed. Well at one point she took her shirt off and was wearing

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[blue_avatar]

uhm i dunno enjoy the show she was giving? be like well if you wanna see a reaction take some more off? lol i dunno. and well i dunno why she just doesn't just break it off if she's doesn't want that or tell him to slow down.maybe she wants some attention from others? or comfort it seems like alot of drama.

[benthelandshark]

Rich, let her know how ya feel about the situation. If ya like her, tell her about your not wanting to be involved with her if she's with someone else. Remember this too: If you're denying yourself happiness by being too nice, that's not really good. Yeah, I consider myself a nice guy too, but that doesn't mean I'm going to make myself miserable for the sake of being thought of as the nice guy.

Hope this makes sense.

-Ben

[craven_mage]

Tell her how ya feel. Say, "hey thanks...but if you dont want me to take off the rest of your clothes you shouldn't tease." Or "Hey, I apreciate the eye candy but I think may be a bit upset if I do anything I am thinking about doing right now." Be blunt. Tell it like it is. The truth shall set you free.

[craven_mage]

Or even better...

"do me a favor and break up with whatshisface so we can bang"

Hmm..that is a great bit of honesty...

[biskis]

she knows how i feel. she says she is confused

Here's my two-cents

[non_shifty_elf]

I still think they girls you're hanging around with immature girls. Most of the women I know don't tease, don't jerk guys around, know what they want and go after it. It's immaturity that makes us seek reassurance, and the easiest way to get that is to have some guy drool over us, because we certainly don't get it from our peers--immature girls hang out with other immature girls, and all of them are too busy being catty to actually support one another. I know, this is as much of a generalization as "good guys finish last," and "girls just go after assholes," but my general belief is that confidence is the most attractive thing about both genders. Confident girls don't need to get reactions from guys, because they already know they're awesome, and confident guys are just hot. "Nice guys" generally finish last not because they are nice, but because they are usually meek as well. "Assholes" generally get the girls because they're confident, and often overconfident, but it's still more interesting than some self-depreciating guy who

Re: Here's my two-cents

[craven_mage]

Very true indeed. But it still does not make the guy who is simply "a nice guy" have any easier of a time of things. If women go after confident assholes, it still means they are whacked. Now, dont get me wrong I KNOW that not all women do this-but many do. And it is those women that drive men nuts because they are so friggan insane!

Rich,

as sad as it may sound...at one point in my life I grew out of being that "nice guy" image. I am not an asshole (i hope). I think I found a happy balance. You too will find your balance.

One more word of advice...

MOVE ON!