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bittergoddess21

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Feb 16, 2004 00:59

I need help.

What draws the line between meaningless flirting and not so meaningless flirting?

Do me a favor and be descriptive and use examples. Why? Because Mandy is 100% clueless at this all.

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katiebugbaby81 February 16 2004, 06:35:15 UTC

i think it depends on who's doing the flirting, the guy or the girl

bittergoddess21 February 16 2004, 21:01:46 UTC

Okay... both. I know MY flirting is intentional, but I'm asking because I don't know if his is. *frowns* I hate being clueless.

Re: katiebugbaby81 February 16 2004, 21:03:16 UTC

*pets* I'm sorry honey.

rewind February 16 2004, 12:39:54 UTC

It's okay Mandy, I suck at knowing when I'm flirting and not flirting too. It's a bad habit or somehing. By the way, I'm Annie, (Amanda-shaped on AC)

..and my nick-name is texas

*texas*

bittergoddess21 February 16 2004, 21:00:23 UTC

Oh no no no... sweetie... I don't wanna know if I'm doing it or not. I know when I'm being intentional. There's someone specific I have in mind, and I want to know if HE'S being intentional.

yummymarsbars February 16 2004, 13:29:16 UTC

I suck because I think everyone is flirting with me.

Do you specific questions that we can point to as meaningless and nonmeangingless?

bittergoddess21 February 16 2004, 20:59:33 UTC

Kind of... and no. *shrugs*

I just want to know how to tell the difference.

fromxthexdamage February 16 2004, 17:02:46 UTC

i think that depends on a couple of things. like who's doing the flirting. if you're naturally a flirt. the situation. all that stuff. anything more specific to narrow it down? otherwise, i would say that meaningless flirting is something thats all in fun. just for kicks with no intended outcome. theres no real expectation of it leading anywhere. with not so meaningless, its very intentional. its taken a bit further. maybe a little more touchy feely and more obvious than meaningless flirting. does that make any sense what so ever?

i hoped that helped. i doubt it though. lol. i'm a natural flirt so thats the only way i kinda know bout all this but. yeah. anywho. hoped that cleared it up.

bittergoddess21 February 16 2004, 20:57:01 UTC

Okay, it all makes sense, but I think you should elaborate a little. How do you know if it's intentional or not? Or all in fun or not?

vegemite_addict February 16 2004, 19:13:12 UTC

I've often wondered about this question...

...when you get the answer, help me out too. ;)

Good luck hon!