People exaggerate just to be "part of the drama" and think they deserve to have an opinion and the people you think are talking about your really aren't its those "fringe" people who are trying to sound like they are in the "know" and can get some attention for themselves. Down deep, the people involved are just trying to stay out of it and don't need the attention to get into this drama because it is theirs to begin with, better to just ignore everyone and it will go away, but if you focus on things it will just make it worse.
And, be careful with the person who is helping you "sort it out" do they REALLY no first hand, not just gossip? Are they going pass on what you say to someone with "don't tell anyone, but she said . . ." and then the whole thing gets started over again?
Everyone is paranoid about people talking about them, that is why it so easy to get to you, or anyone else for that matter. Want to see someone squirm? Start whispering in front of them, look at them and then start laughing. That is playing on people's general paranoia about being talked about. It isn't you, its everyone, but the only way to conquuer that paranoia is to ignore it. Once people know they can't get to you by talking about you, they will just stop. You take notice, they keep going. Good luck with this. Hope this helps.
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I suppose you are right, but i hate the fact that i get so paranoid about people talking about me, i absolutely hate it...
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