i have the same problem! out of the many ex bf's i have, i didnt talk to any of them untill a few days ago. and thats just one of them. him and some of my friends are friends so we were bound to talk eventualy. i dont understand their way of thinking.
we were friends before we went out, why came we be friends now?!?
Well me and this kid were not friends much before we went out. It was like 3 maybe 4 hours we knew eachother and we decided we were going to go out. But still... Ya know? I'm friends with MOST of my ex's. Because I think that whole: "We broke up now let's not talk" game is child's play. Urhg. Me and this kid shared alot of memories, I HATE the fact we can't just be friends. Why not? Double dating is fun!! :)
i hate when they dont talk to you when you make an effort. it really i childs play. and thats the worst...you and that someone share alot of things. you still need them in youre life. not as anything romantic, but as a friend. i think its just a guy thing. boys are dumb. (sorry im bitter right now, lol) double dating would be a cool idea. that way all of you could get to know each other a bit more.
My point exactally.THANK YOU. Something about sharing something like that with a person kinda makes you want to know they are ok. You don't romantically want to be with them, but you miss the friendship, the connection. That's the worst part. And try to explain that to a new boyfriend. Eeish. Espically sence he totaly hates most of his ex's and talks a bunch of shit about them... He dose NOT get that. But you are right, it's a guy thing. A break up is totaly the end of it for them... For us we still have a connection. Not love...Just a connection. Ya know? Like a strong friendship. And I guess I'd understand not talking to them if they talk shit about your new Bf or Gf, or if they try shit and so on and so fourth, but he don't. When we do talk it's like friends. But guys seem to hate you after they leave you... Whats that about?!
i think girls are just more connected to begin with. i will never understand guys. i dont think they really hate you. i think its just easier to say they hate you than try to make the effort to be friends. maybe they're scared that feeling will come back?? who knows...
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out of the many ex bf's i have, i didnt talk to any of them untill a few days ago. and thats just one of them. him and some of my friends are friends so we were bound to talk eventualy.
i dont understand their way of thinking.
we were friends before we went out, why came we be friends now?!?
ugh
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Wow.
You posted this as I was commenting to the other.
Cool.
Alyssa Rose ♥
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It was like 3 maybe 4 hours we knew eachother and we decided we were going to go out.
But still...
Ya know?
I'm friends with MOST of my ex's.
Because I think that whole:
"We broke up now let's not talk"
game is child's play.
Urhg.
Me and this kid shared alot of memories,
I HATE the fact we can't just be friends.
Why not?
Double dating is fun!!
:)
Alyssa Rose ♥
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it really i childs play.
and thats the worst...you and that someone share alot of things.
you still need them in youre life. not as anything romantic, but as a friend.
i think its just a guy thing. boys are dumb. (sorry im bitter right now, lol)
double dating would be a cool idea. that way all of you could get to know each other a bit more.
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Something about sharing something like that with a person kinda makes you want to know they are ok. You don't romantically want to be with them,
but you miss the friendship, the connection.
That's the worst part.
And try to explain that to a new boyfriend.
Eeish.
Espically sence he totaly hates most of his ex's
and talks a bunch of shit about them...
He dose NOT get that.
But you are right, it's a guy thing.
A break up is totaly the end of it for them...
For us we still have a connection. Not love...Just a connection.
Ya know?
Like a strong friendship. And I guess I'd understand not talking to them if they talk shit about your new Bf or Gf, or if they try shit and so on and so fourth, but he don't. When we do talk it's like friends.
But guys seem to hate you after they leave you...
Whats that about?!
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i will never understand guys.
i dont think they really hate you. i think its just easier to say they hate you than try to make the effort to be friends.
maybe they're scared that feeling will come back??
who knows...
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