no, im not your momma.

[blackrosetears]

really, i love to offer all i can as far as support, love, and sympathy to hurting friends. but i am in NO way stable enough to be someone's therapist and means of sanity. i said it in the last one.. i am to weak to be your cure.  its not because i dont care. but i really am trying to handle everything on my plate right now. the increasing panic

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In a firm and commanding voice

[anonymous]

This woman has detected something in your personality that she either admires or envies, or both. This may be why she has gravitated to you, although the way you describe the situation it sounds as if she would like to attain a development stage similar to where you are currently in your life. Her practice of laying her problems on you and looking to you for emotional support is her way asking you how to get to Carrie’s level. The resultant effect of eroding your veneer of sanity may be unintentional on her part. Again, from how you describe her its difficult to discern if she is consciously attempting to drag you down to her level. She is obviously lost. Gently explain to her that, similar to her you’re trying to make a life for yourself, there is just so much that you can do to help and support her, but at some point she has to take responsibility for her life and begin to help herself. If she has been diagnosed with a psychological disorder then she should be aware of the professional methods in which she can find some semblance