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blackwidow3000

From Tuesday

Jan 07, 2010 19:59

NOTE -- This was originally written on Tuesday.January is my least favorite month. I absolutely hate the snow. I hate driving in it, I have having to brush it off my car, and I hate having to scrape my windows. I hear that this could be the coldest winter in something like 25 years. We better have a halfway decent summer as a result of this sheer ( Read more... )

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takami826 January 8 2010, 18:45:04 UTC

Kirk,
I think Jamie tried to get Schmed to get out of the house, but I think he got mad at her because he kind of left it as "I can't make any plans, ask Kirk" and alluded to Amy and him getting back together this weekend. I think she TRIED talking to him without judgement, but he just got defensive so I'd told her just to back off. I didn't push either, I threw the invite out there and told him if he needed to talk or a sounding board to sort things out, both or either me and Jamie are around. I know it's futile right now but the offer is there. We were trying to find out if you guys wanted to hang out for a bit, maybe hit up Barnes and Noble in Montrose, maybe Scummit Mall, grab some grub etc... he's so jacked up from this Amy thing he can't even see that his friends and family are worried about him. It's really sad. Schmed's such a great guy, he deserves so much better... unfortunate he can't see it right now.

blackwidow3000 January 9 2010, 01:03:48 UTC

I appreciate what you and Jamie are trying to do, but I feel the only one who can help him is himself. Yesterday he actually told me that he is starting to believe that it is over, but he still won't get his shit or take her off his bank account.

He has been getting defensive, but I think he's just sick of hearing it from us. I wouldn't take it personally. We should hang out soon. This weekend is a bust due to weather, but I should be available next weekend or the weekend after that.

takami826 January 9 2010, 04:12:42 UTC

Oh I know he can only help himself... I think Jamie knows that, too, and we didn't take it personally at all. It's kind of one of those things where you're worried, want to let them know you're worried but don't know what else to say kind of things...

The fact he's getting defensive could be because he's finally starting to realise it's over. I HOPE so, for his sake.

Yea I agree about the weather... it blows.