A Sense of Self

[blade_bunny]

Through much of my life I have ascribed to the fiction that I was in control of my desires. I held the notion of "finding oneself" in disdain. It was evident to me that we create ourselves, the self is not something that is found

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[libbydabomb]

on a funny note, I find it that I could walk outside with a brown paper bag on and men will still whistle at me.

how is your summer?

[xeyeofhorusx]

It's not for everyone, but I have found the 3D Mind work of Tom Vizzini quite effective in addressing changes like this. It's basically a form of mental/emotional alchemy, where you take apart a problem state into its necessary components and then use a resource state and its components to create a new balance. You have to see the demonstration video to believe it - the subject at one point exhibits blatant amnesia for a problem he had been stuck in for years, even though there is no official trance induction or traditional hypnotic technique. Even cooler is the followup video they did 4 months later. The website is a bit tarded, and frankly Tom's production values are sometimes horrendous, but as for his actual work, it's serious tech, check it out.

http://www.essential-skills.com/3dmind.htm