you should never date someone just because you want someone to be with. you should date someone because you really like that person, not because they serve a purpose.
not that it's my place to tell you that, really. but... you know.
Did I say I was going to just pick someone random? No. Its not as easy as just picking someone as I said. If dating in general served no sort of purpose than no one would, would they?
I guess what I am saying is that you can't find what your not looking for and you can't get an answer from an unasked question.
I don't mind the commenting, I do mind being judged that my motives are not good or my methodology doesn't have thought in it when you don't know either.
Truly being lonely. . .aloneeroticwhiteroseJanuary 26 2005, 18:40:26 UTC
Though you both are right in your own sense. . . being lonely is not answered by being with someone in a dating relationship. . .loneliness is easily mistaken with longing
Loneliness is a seperation from reality from the connections with friends and family. Those persons who support you, guide you, help you. Otherwsie you fall into a downward spiral of depression. . . .
that's the point I was talking about. the way you say it, it sounds like you're going, "well, I want a girlfriend now, so I guess I'll try to pick a girl without making this too difficult." the way you said it it sounds like all you want is to have a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend. which will make any girl you date feel like you are dating her only because you wanted someone to go out with - even if that's not the case.
be careful how you word things so if you end up dating someone who read it, they won't get the wrong impression. but if I misunderstood you, I'm sorry.
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you should never date someone just because you want someone to be with. you should date someone because you really like that person, not because they serve a purpose.
not that it's my place to tell you that, really. but... you know.
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I guess what I am saying is that you can't find what your not looking for and you can't get an answer from an unasked question.
I don't mind the commenting, I do mind being judged that my motives are not good or my methodology doesn't have thought in it when you don't know either.
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Loneliness is a seperation from reality from the connections with friends and family. Those persons who support you, guide you, help you. Otherwsie you fall into a downward spiral of depression. . . .
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that's the point I was talking about. the way you say it, it sounds like you're going, "well, I want a girlfriend now, so I guess I'll try to pick a girl without making this too difficult." the way you said it it sounds like all you want is to have a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend. which will make any girl you date feel like you are dating her only because you wanted someone to go out with - even if that's not the case.
be careful how you word things so if you end up dating someone who read it, they won't get the wrong impression. but if I misunderstood you, I'm sorry.
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you're a great guy, David, you know that?
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