I've done that before. A few times actually- tis how at least one of my cars bumps arose (not on freeway that time ;)). Sometimes things take a long time to work through, or heal. it works in cycles like that. you can go for ages thinking its okay, then it will hit you like a ton of bricks and its like no time has past at all. But sooner or later, it does get better. whether its how long there is between days when it eats you, or just how bad it seems on those days. So be optimistic- struggling means your moving through it, that your getting through each day. Even when it feel like the worst day,week, month, year, decade of your life.
Don't feel alone. Many of us are going through it at the moment. Some of us embrace the feeling openly like you do and allow themselves to feel, others deny it all together and drown themselves in distractions and when their not distracted they feel depressed, and others still survey where they are and struggle to change the chaos and bend it so they fit.
What gets me through it is remembering what it was like in darker times. Times when I truly felt cold and alone. Regardless where any of us stand right now, there have always been worse times.
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Sometimes things take a long time to work through, or heal. it works in cycles like that.
you can go for ages thinking its okay, then it will hit you like a ton of bricks and its like no time has past at all.
But sooner or later, it does get better. whether its how long there is between days when it eats you, or just how bad it seems on those days.
So be optimistic- struggling means your moving through it, that your getting through each day.
Even when it feel like the worst day,week, month, year, decade of your life.
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darling
u just made me cry......and im at work
maybe just then i needed someone to tell me they understand
thank you
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You deserve it hun.
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What gets me through it is remembering what it was like in darker times. Times when I truly felt cold and alone. Regardless where any of us stand right now, there have always been worse times.
Don't forget them, learn from them.
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