I finally went...

[blatantly_kinky]

Well, I finally went to California to meet my estranged granparents. I must say, they are the cutest people. The thing I want to write about though is that today I went to my dad's grave. After ten years I didn't know how I would react. I went up there with my grandpa. My grandma won't go because she gets too emotional. Anyway, when we pulled up

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[offbeatblink]

I'm glad you can finally scratch this one off your list. I know its been there for awhile. Not crying doesn't make you heartless. Live strong.

[mynameislola]

I remember the last time I visited my dads headstone, we were with my abuela, and abuelo before he died. He through himself on my dads grave and cried. I think it was a mixture of a. loseing a son. And B. All the things he never go to say to him. Im glad you were able to get that off your chest and crying doesnt make you heartless you wouldnt have gone at all if you were.