yikes

[blessed_light]

well he went and asked the question i thought he would.. and i gave him the only answer i could at the time..that i wasnt quite ready for it and could he ask again in a few months when i had time to go over it in my head..wasnt quite ready for his reply though..seems its now or never and he has gone off in a huff..why do men do stuff like this???..

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[d_morff]

He's probably worried that since you dodnt give him the right answer now you never will. Fingers crossed he calms down/chills out and it all works out in the end.

[blessed_light]

if its the right answer..hes assuming it is and i want to be sure it is..i thought he would understand that..i dont want to risk ruining both our lives..i dont want to be another divorce statistic..i couldnt imagine anything worse than going through that..i guess if he isnt willing to see my point then the answer to his question is decided..and he isnt the man i thought he was..you cant pressure people into being with you like that..

[d_morff]

A divorce is a nightmare to go through :(

[blessed_light]

im assuming that youve been through one then..sorry about that..my parents went through one a few years ago but luckily it was amicable..hopefully you wont be alone for too long and find happiness in some way.:)