Wee Pink:) Well i love you too baby you mean everything to me don't ever forget it ok? I'm glad I was there for you because your an awsum person and you always will be you deserve to be happy... so be happy ok I love you forever *kisses and hugs* Love always Maegz xxx
You no what... how about you fuck the hell off. Its obvious that no one likes you so fuck off and get a fucking life your really pathetic. You can't even fucking post your name, what kind of insecure person are you anyway? Huh? Scared we'll find out who you are? Your a fucking wimp or do you just like being insulted coz honestly I like insulting fuck heads like YOU! Because THATS ALL YOU ARE! I don't know you I don't NEED to know you, to already know your a fuck head. Show some respect, and stop being so self-seeking. You no what... I'm glad your a wimp... its keeping me out of a detention centre from trying to kill you. I'm glad your amused my by comments towards you but I find you incredably rude and inconsiderate.. I don't do this often but... I know it'll be worth my while. I hope something horrible happens to you and maybe one day you'll learn a thing or two. Respect maybe if not I'll make sure you do
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i agree, this stupid, insesative ignorant person needs to be killed. so as not to reproduce. if they only under stood, maybe then i could try and comprehend where there stupidy comes from. but they'er portraying themself as rather...dull. i think they need to pull there head out of the sound and see that the facts are alot of people who S.I even if they dont know it. if they read this, GO TO HELL AND DIE A LONG SLOW PAINFUL DEATH. and THEN have a nice day and a pittyful existance.
Nah sorry. You might as well go around with a big sign that says "I WANT ATTENTION!! GIMME GIMME GIMME!! LOOK AT MY ARMS!! LOOOOOOK!" If you want to raise money, donate to a charity. There's no reason to go around with bracelets to let the world know that they need to pity you. People won't ever understand that it's not a freaking mental illness. It's teen angst, people! We all have it!! And as hypocritical as you want to call me, it's purely an attention-seeking behaviour. Donate to find a cure for cancer, for god's sake. More people die of that than "Self Injury".
You know I'm not looking for pity Jess. I don't cut any more, and when I did, well, that's the past. I'm just sick of people judging and not understanding people who do cut for real reasons. And I know you Jess. You're one of the most selfless people I know, and don't try to argue with that, you're a treasure.
the family phyic i go to with my family discribed it as "people who Self Harm do it to feel phycial pain to try and deal and also dcope with complex emortions, and not always for attention. they o it so they my punish themselfs for resons that are too hard for any one but them to understand
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Okay I agree wholeheartedly with you and I am the first to admit that, yeah, I've cut myself up many a time. But it was always something I could help. I won't sit here and tell you you're wrong, like many people would, because you're not experiencing Schitzophrenia or Anorexia. I very much know it comes hand it hand with those diseases. HOWEVER, will you at least agree with me that 90% of teenagers cut because it's cool. And the scars are rad. And they get attention from people telling them it's bad and that they're always there for them. And they wear their sleeves just rolled up enough to see a little bit of red. Or they walk around tenderly rubbing their arms and shy away when someone asks what's wrong. It's happened to, I kid you not, 6 of my friends. SIX people I know found out about my cutting and decided to do it themselves, incase they weren't getting enough attention already. It annoys me, and unfortunately I can't see past that majority to be in favour of this day for SI. Love Me -xxx-
I do have to agree with the Jess girl, Blindy, sorry. I think the whole thing will bring light to the fact that most people who DO cut do it for attention and not because they're truly depressed. There's better ways to go about supporting the day than wearing beads.
No offence or anything, you're a great guy, but I don't think anyone can claim to cutting because it makes them feel better. People who cut do it because they've heard that that's what you do when you're depressed, which is why more teenagers do it than adults; they're a lot more impressionable.
I know you're still going to support the day no matter what I say because you're a strong-willed person, but if I see the beads on Tuesday then I get to feed them to you. Haha, just kidding man, we all love you.
I agree with most of your points whole-heartedly, and I appreciate that you said 'most people DO cut for attention', which is true. But some don't, and it's those people who I'm doing my best to help, because I was one of them. I never cut for attention, and one point which supports that is that no-one knew I did cut, because I hid it and never spoke about it...I've only started speaking about it because I think I can help people and I want to help people who have nowhere else to turn. The majority make a mockery of a problem which is all to real for the minority, and only those who've been in the minority can do anything to help.
Thanks for your time and understanding, not just Evan, but everyone.
And no, I've done noething more of the Lit Q's since you last saw them since she has my book, :P
Hey, for those of you who don't know, this is Frankie, (or Andrew if you like), Dani's BF. It seems the most logical assumption is that "SIAD" is attention seeking behaviour, and therefore immature and undesirable. However, how can those few people who do self-harm for reasons other than attention obtain the understanding of pertinacious persons such as our newfound pestilential "Mr. Anonymous?" Jess I'm sure that there are people who cut for your abovementioned reason. I am even more certain that there are people who cut for reasons other than gaining attention. How can it be bluntly stated these people are self-harming due to anxiety, when these people are suffering from clinical depression or other various mental illnesses? Your assumptions are contingent upon people wearing beads only to gain attention, where that attention has no other purpose.... maybe there are some, as Blindy purported... that would wear these bead in an attempt to quell the anonymous posters, through providing them with awareness. Hence they are not searching
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But don't you think they're getting the compassion through the attention they're seeking? In all fairness to you, (and I know you don't know me very well), I have very strong opinions and I often express them without consideration for the other side of the argument. So, as I was going to say, I all fairness to everyone here, there are two ways of seeking attention. A good way and a bad way. There are some kids that don't get attention at home OR they get the wrong kind of attention, be it they get beaten or molested or mistreated. I've seen that leading to all kinds of SI. Perhaps a person experiences something tragic and life changing and they simply cannot bring themselves to talk about it, so they use a more subtle way of drawing attention to themselves
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I love you Maegan, you're the best thing that has ever happened to me.
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Love always
Maegz
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the more people who know the better!
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i think your mummy should kiss it better for you
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If you want to raise money, donate to a charity. There's no reason to go around with bracelets to let the world know that they need to pity you.
People won't ever understand that it's not a freaking mental illness. It's teen angst, people! We all have it!! And as hypocritical as you want to call me, it's purely an attention-seeking behaviour.
Donate to find a cure for cancer, for god's sake. More people die of that than "Self Injury".
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And I know you Jess. You're one of the most selfless people I know, and don't try to argue with that, you're a treasure.
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It's happened to, I kid you not, 6 of my friends. SIX people I know found out about my cutting and decided to do it themselves, incase they weren't getting enough attention already.
It annoys me, and unfortunately I can't see past that majority to be in favour of this day for SI.
Love Me
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No offence or anything, you're a great guy, but I don't think anyone can claim to cutting because it makes them feel better. People who cut do it because they've heard that that's what you do when you're depressed, which is why more teenagers do it than adults; they're a lot more impressionable.
I know you're still going to support the day no matter what I say because you're a strong-willed person, but if I see the beads on Tuesday then I get to feed them to you. Haha, just kidding man, we all love you.
Have you done much of the Lit questions yet?? :S
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I agree with most of your points whole-heartedly, and I appreciate that you said 'most people DO cut for attention', which is true. But some don't, and it's those people who I'm doing my best to help, because I was one of them. I never cut for attention, and one point which supports that is that no-one knew I did cut, because I hid it and never spoke about it...I've only started speaking about it because I think I can help people and I want to help people who have nowhere else to turn. The majority make a mockery of a problem which is all to real for the minority, and only those who've been in the minority can do anything to help.
Thanks for your time and understanding, not just Evan, but everyone.
And no, I've done noething more of the Lit Q's since you last saw them since she has my book, :P
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