Comments | blissfullyjaded: my personal whore

blissfullyjaded

my personal whore

Jul 20, 2005 17:56

So a lot has happened in the last few weeks. I moved, and will be moving again next weekend. Met a guy, dated him for about a week, ended that, and now am single again, which at this point I much prefer (with 2 exceptions ( Read more... )

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blissfullyjaded July 24 2005, 15:10:07 UTC

sounds good... be there soon :P

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blissfullyjaded July 26 2005, 01:41:44 UTC

This whole summer is a vacation, who knows where I will end up. If I had a car I would be there in a flash.

revtoiletduck July 21 2005, 17:22:34 UTC

I'm not really sure if you should be caring about his girlfriend or not. I guess it depends on how "good" of a person you think she is. Good people don't deserve to be treated shittily.

Either way, if you're looking for random, meaningless sex, I think your ex is probably the worst place to go for it. Whether you realize it or not, it'll always make you vulnerable to more of his bullshit.

blissfullyjaded July 24 2005, 15:11:10 UTC

I suppose that is true... it's just there is so much chemistry between us its hard to ignore.

Re: Advice rook_the_roach July 21 2005, 18:35:53 UTC

Stop fucking the ex. It'll open the door to the possiblity of getting together again and opening up all the freshly laid bullshit you just put to rest by breaking up.

He might get the ol' motor running but who's the one getting the free ride? You have the guilt, he has the satisfaction of a good fuck.

Break it clean, it heals faster. Talk or interact rarely if you have to but even then only in platonic manner.

If his girlfriend ain't doing it for him thats his problem not yours. You should be looking to move on as well, either being single and available or looking for commitment.

Re: Advice blissfullyjaded July 24 2005, 15:18:18 UTC

We are never ever going to get back together that is 100% for sure. But I do see your point about his problem with his girlfriend not being my problem. I just feel bad for the guy.

Re: Advice rook_the_roach July 25 2005, 13:57:47 UTC

Good thats a good start :)

I wish ya luck. And woo I didn't realize you put me on your friends list so now you're on mine.

Oh well I really shouldn't be giving too much advice, not particularly when I'm as tired or grumpy as I usually am. It just never seems to come out right.

Don't feel bad for him. He's obviously not feeling bad for you when he comes over for his fun and letting you guilt trip over it. Or when his interactions with you slow you from moving on to finding a new relationship, or feeling the closure you probably need.

Good luck girly. I'll post again some other time