Comments | blonde_sweety: So Lost and Confused.....

blonde_sweety

So Lost and Confused.....

Jan 23, 2006 16:35

So I have been struggling a lot with one of my parents lately.....I know that they are doing something that they shouldnt be....and i have been contemplating telling the other parent...but i dont want to be a tattle.....but i honestly dont know how much more of this i can take!!! Its emotionally disturbing me to know this because Im the only one in ( Read more... )

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addicted_to_ice January 24 2006, 00:01:08 UTC

If someone is hurting you or someone you know physically or mentally you have no right to just sit back and take that. I have no idea what is going on, but if you're scared then you should do something! You have a right to be treated as you would like to be treated. Don't let anyone jepordize that. If you're scared or uncomfortable, don't put up with it! And if you don't feel like you can tell the other parent, then you can tell someone else you trust. You can always tell me what is going on. I'm not sure if I would be able to do anything, but I can at least listen. It sounds like this is pretty serious, so take care of yourself. Give me a call if you want.

Sasha :)

Thanks, Your the best! blonde_sweety January 24 2006, 00:18:10 UTC

well...its really not as bad as it sounds....my dad is just doing stuff on the internet i know he shouldnt be doing (take a wild guess at what it is) but me and abbie are the only people who know....and hes decieving my mom about the whole thing and i know she would be absolutely crushed if she knew...i dont want to hurt her!! This may be way out of line, but knowing that my dad does that honestly scares me....im scared he may one day turn on me and do something....or if i tell something will happen....abbie thinks i should confront him about it, but i really dont think i can do that. This has been going on for quite some time now, and its getting increasingly worse. It also makes me lose all respect for him whatsoever...

I guess the whole reason i havent said anything is cuz i feel I'm taking it way out of context...but i dunno....

Re: Thanks, Your the best! addicted_to_ice January 24 2006, 00:24:43 UTC

Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry. I don't even know what to say. That's so horrible. How did you find out? If you want me to do anything, I'll do it.

Re: Thanks, Your the best! blonde_sweety January 24 2006, 00:31:28 UTC

well i caught him during the summer once...and i have noticed that everytime he is home alone or everybody is sleeping the internet gets deleted...and once he forgot to delete it....and a bunch of other random things....but yeah, its just started bothering me a lot more....and im kinda confused as to what i should do....

Im really glad that i have a wonderful cousin like you! :D

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an_octave_down January 24 2006, 00:21:32 UTC

This may sound strange, but is there anyway to leave "evidence" that your mom would be able to find on her own?

blonde_sweety January 24 2006, 00:28:16 UTC

I could....but my dad hides his trail by deleting internet history..so i could if i really wanted to, but he would prolly just go back and delete it...im hoping for her to catch him herself...

and because of things that have happened in the past because of me....i dont think my mom checks the internet anymore because she just doesnt want to know what im up to...because thats how she caught me and tony once....so i dont think thats one of my choices....

an_octave_down January 24 2006, 00:31:46 UTC

Well, then I would quitely confront him about it...just ask him what your mom would think about it...and then tell him he should stop, or you will tell your mom...that way, you are giving him a chance to correct himself, before it becomes a big problem...

blonde_sweety January 24 2006, 00:38:48 UTC

very good observation sir watson! haha, i'll prolly give it a lil more time and maybe i can catch him again and then confront him about it!