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blondestarchic

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Jan 13, 2005 21:13

Trust vs. Mistrust trust vs mistrust is a developmental stage in your life. Basically, when you are a young child, or a baby at that matter, and your parents neglect you in anyway, or are not around enough you develope a sense of mistrust. If they are neglecting you, you are not capable of trusting them, therefor when you grow up you will have ( Read more... )

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bootytastic02 January 14 2005, 03:24:34 UTC

I don't think freud is right cause i isolated myself when i was 18 and i get a good balance of intimacy and isolation!

bootytastic02 January 14 2005, 21:57:36 UTC

Freud did enough coke to kill a small horse

blondestarchic January 14 2005, 22:17:17 UTC

you can believe whatever you want. It was almost typical for a person like you to disagree.

As to your first statement, you have isolated yourself. You cant do both, in the sense he is talking about. I could sit here n analyze you n tell you what I feel about your situation, but I have no place to do so.

Your afraid to trust people, and we have had our talk, and from what I see you are isolated. Not as far of an extent as others, but still are. Inimacy is havin relationships with others, such as a "special someone" opening up to someone, showin them how much you care about them, and love them.

Freud may have done that..
but all these thoughts were not just made up by him.
N Freud is one of the most intelligent psychologists who came up with many different theorys.

Everyones intitled to their own opinions.
I personally believe he is right on the money about everything he says.

bootytastic02 January 16 2005, 23:34:12 UTC

I open up to a variety of different people, Freud had a theory and its just that....things that are proven true are known as laws!

blondestarchic January 17 2005, 00:35:55 UTC

thank u for that information? that im well aware of. In actually Its erik erickson who had the initmacy vs isoliation, the other things were freud*that was my fault*
but either way I believe he and freud are correct along with all the other psychologists in there "theories"

In such things like that can not be proven to be "laws"
they arent laws.
Its personality and the way it works, u cant put laws to that.

You can believe in think what you want.Thats what Opinions were made for...(those arent laws either)

ever thought that mayb u just havent realized somethings yet? Mayb you dont know all inner problems or what may be the cause of them??

littleredhottie January 18 2005, 17:50:31 UTC

Megan - you are sooo normal! and the reason you haven't been in a "long-term" relationship is because your picky and that's GOOD!!!! you don't wanna settle for some jerk just because he'll stick around for more than 2 or 3 weeks. well just some thoughts from me, and I love you girlie - p.s. ur entry is very insightful and it made me think so yah lol

later babe xoxoxoxo
kimberli

bootytastic02 January 20 2005, 01:58:23 UTC

Hmmmm I know my inner problems, Ive had 2 years of HS alone to figure most of them out!