realization, idea, hypothesis, theory-type thing

[blondetaters]

You hear "the right one comes around when you're not looking" quite frequently

Comments

[thelonedragon]

I think you're right, but people have told me that as well that I shouldn't be looking and someone would come around that I wouldn't expect. But the truth of the matter is if you aren't looking it's not going to happen to you. Pursuing goes both ways whether it be a little bit of flirting or whatever. It's a complicated dance/game that I don't think I will ever fully understand. The ones that really understand these systems are players and pick-up artists that take full advantage of the pursuit.

[blondetaters]

Well...it might happen to you if you aren't looking. You might just stumble upon someone you think is really great.

[blondetaters]

Well...As I think I said above, I'm a firm believer that the girl is not to be the pursuer, so I have to fundamentally disagree with you there.

[essius]

If only girls didn't suck so bad at responding. =-P

[vacant_seas]

iawtc

[blondetaters]

What does that mean?

I had to look it up..

[hager]

"I Agree With This Comment"

[free_radikal]

i think i agree with the fact that guys should pursue, but as a guy, sometimes it's a lot of work, and it's so hard to figure out what the heck kinda signals girls are trying to send.

i wonder if so many people find "the one" when they're not looking is because when we're looking so hard we're just not in the right place to be in a relationship, and we screw things up.

[blondetaters]

Yeah...I know. It also stinks to be a girl and be able to do nothing but sit by and wait.

[vacant_seas]

I just tend not to worry about it. I live my life and God provides. : )

[blondetaters]

Yes He does. I'm not saying worry about it or anything - I was merely theorizing.