matt / jon / i hoped i'd never have to deal with this

[blondie2c7m]

Ahhhh I hate myself. Sometimes I just don't know what to DO. Today I called Matt to tell him the parade was cancelled (whoohoo!) so then he asked me if I was going to the Y today, and I was, so we were going to meet there and then go to lunch after. Weeeeell I got home and Mom and I got into a fight about my attitude or something and how I'm

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[trackstar039]

*breathe* relax. its going to be ok, and I <3 you!

[blondie2c7m]

thanks liz :) i <3 you too!

[xocarrie85ox]

Well, I was with Matt when you called and after he got off the phone, we talked about it for a little. First off, I didn't know that when we were together he had told you that you guys couldn't hang out anymore. He asked me if you and I had had a conversation about it (he thinks we talk all the time or something?!) but anyways, he explained how he did tell you that and why. From what i gathered, he doesn't think you're being a hyprcrite at all! Personally, I think you're handling it exactly how you should be. Because honestly, I didn't understand you and Matt's friendship at the beginning and being the type of person I am, it somewhat bothered me. Just the fact that we didn't know each other at all made everything more awkward. I knew at the beginning you were upset we were together, but I didn't know why, and he never explained. I guess my advice would be try hanging out with both Jon and Matt together. That way Jon can see exactly what you and Matt's friendship really is. It's probably your safest bet. I mean, you don't want to not

[blondie2c7m]

thanks carrie, it's nice to know someone agrees with what i did :) i talked to jon and everything's fine with him, so as long as matt's fine everything is...fine. and matt probably didn't give this a second thought :) i'm sure i was overreacting as usual, but introducing them is definitely a good idea.
~*christie*~

[xocarrie85ox]

I'm glad that you got to talk things out and that everything's fine! Communication is key. The way I see it is if Matt would have introduced us wayyyyy back in the day, there would have been no misunderstandings, so hopefully that'll work for you! matt's all about meeting new people anyways...
Even if you were overreacting, its all good, i do it allll the time, I'm all pro at overreacting...

[anonymous]

Aaahh!!! Relationship confusion! Indecision! Self-Doubt! Stay tuned for the next episode of As the World Turns...

On a more serious note: I'm sure everything will work out fine...until that next English paper comes along. Don't feel too guilty. Just nod, smile that smile and carry on.

~The Bearded Stranger~

[blondie2c7m]

lol not another english paper!! i can't believe she's still giving us work. seriously, the ap test is OVER! oh well...nothing's as bad as the paper from hell :)

[myrtilman]

::sigh::

the usual christie.
you gotta stop making these things a big deal.

you dont have a problem with hanging out with matt. why should jon have any say? matt is your friend, not jon's. and if jon can handle you coming over my house without him, then he can handle anyone.

stop.
worrying.
about.
everything.

there is no need.

and if jon has a problem, then ill take care of it. in all seriousness.

and if you saw jon with another girl, there is no reason for you to feel uncomfortable, because that just means you are insecure about the relationship. as long as you know that you are totally committed to jon and likewise from him to you, there should be nothing to worry about.

at. all.

so like i said:
stop.
worrying.
about.
everything.

itll be fine. this comment has now taken up too much room, and thats my cue to leave.

p.s. you missed a good movie. shows you for blowin me off for greg mcdonald. hmph.

[blondie2c7m]

you're right sunish, i made this way too big of a deal :) and you know i wouldn't blow you off, i just made plans with greg first. i hope your leg is doing better!! ooh and i hope your mom didn't take away the candy lol