* I am a married broad as of September 4, 2010. Married Jesse in a perfect ceremony at our house. Will be changing my name, but it's going to be a huge process, so I am taking my time
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I hate that you feel the way you do, Jape. But I don't think it's fair of you to call those that have been supporting you liars. I can't speak for anyone else, but I know that what I say about you to be true. It's what I feel and I know. Maybe you don't see that in yourself, but that doesn't make me a liar. It's up to you to feel better about yourself, no amount of compliments or coaching from your friends will make it happen. I know how hard it is to let go of those horrible feelings about yourself but, you just have to do it. You don't deserve to be miserable your whole life and you especially don't deserve that kind of treatment from yourself. Please learn to love yourself, love the person that everyone around you sees and loves
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Hi Jape. thank you very much for the reply. It means a lot. I did want to clear up, though, that I wasn't calling anyone a liar.. just describing the inner monologue that I get whenever I receive a compliment or something similar. That's all. I appreciate those who support me more than I think even I know. They/you mean the world to me.
You're a true friend and know we'll make things work no matter what, so please don't see yourself as included in this. It was more written for me than for anyone else.
Well, tell that inner-shitass to shut up and take the compliments. You are in fact a beautiful, caring, creative soul. You're my Jape, and you wouldn't be if you were a piece of crap. I love you. I hope that you can find it in yourself to forgive yourself for the past and start loving yourself for the awesome person that you are.
If you won't do that for yourself, do it for the people around you.
I haven't met japejapejape...but I agree! You are an amazing woman, creative, thoughtful, funny, intelligent (book smarts and common sense), warm and inviting, and someone who deserves the very best in life. We love you! (And I miss you tons...its been waaay too long since we saw each other last)
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You're a true friend and know we'll make things work no matter what, so please don't see yourself as included in this. It was more written for me than for anyone else.
I love you. <3
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If you won't do that for yourself, do it for the people around you.
I miss you. I hope we can hangout soon!
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I sympathize your selfloathing. Im sorry you feel that way; I hope things work out.
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