Don't feel you have to be polite...I even mean if you hate me, just tell me I can take it...You're a strong girl and I know you'll pull through in the end
well now that you are in markham, hopefully you can seek the ties you had with your old friends. i cannot imagine all of them would have moved away, but if they did, just wait for the summer when it's more of a possibility to see everyone. the school yea tends to weaken friendship ties, but you need to realize it's temporary & it does happen to all of us. as much as you may be sad now, i would hope & i would go as far as to say that it won't last. the one thing anyone older than me in university/college/their own living arrangment has said is that you will definately talk to people less while you have school. how did you balance your academics with your social life when you went to george brown? you may be finding that you feel less occupied now. i find that when i feel like i have a lot of free time, i end up sitting around & i feel lonely.
i was able to balance the very limited social life i had while i was at george brown.
I was lonely during school though, too. at least though i could tell myself I had school, and that since I was in toronto it was harder for people to see me and it was kind of an excuse to dull the loneliness.
now, theres not really an excuse I can provide for alot of people.
you mean now that you are back in markham & they are close to you?
but now that you don't have school, go out more! even at school you were doing a lot better than me, i heard of some of the things your were doing. at least you were going out.
i guess when people don't call me i assume that it's because they are like me & have work to get done. i may be wrong, but it keeps me happy. maybe don't look at it in a way that you assume they don't like you anymore. it's really easy to jump to conclusions when you feel lonely, i do it all the time & chris has to tell me to stop it or i don't realize i do it.
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I Walk by your work every day i am there, but you are never there!
WTF?!
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i cannot imagine all of them would have moved away, but if they did, just wait for the summer when it's more of a possibility to see everyone.
the school yea tends to weaken friendship ties, but you need to realize it's temporary & it does happen to all of us.
as much as you may be sad now, i would hope & i would go as far as to say that it won't last.
the one thing anyone older than me in university/college/their own living arrangment has said is that you will definately talk to people less while you have school.
how did you balance your academics with your social life when you went to george brown?
you may be finding that you feel less occupied now.
i find that when i feel like i have a lot of free time, i end up sitting around & i feel lonely.
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I was lonely during school though, too. at least though i could tell myself I had school, and that since I was in toronto it was harder for people to see me and it was kind of an excuse to dull the loneliness.
now, theres not really an excuse I can provide for alot of people.
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but now that you don't have school, go out more!
even at school you were doing a lot better than me, i heard of some of the things your were doing.
at least you were going out.
i guess when people don't call me i assume that it's because they are like me & have work to get done.
i may be wrong, but it keeps me happy.
maybe don't look at it in a way that you assume they don't like you anymore.
it's really easy to jump to conclusions when you feel lonely, i do it all the time & chris has to tell me to stop it or i don't realize i do it.
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and they arent willing to put in alot of effort into maintaining a friendship.
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