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blubreeze

Pain, epiphany, paralysis...Take 485

Nov 14, 2005 08:05

I don't know where this entry is going to go. So I'm going to just write and allow my thoughts and my heart to lead me.

There is more than one kind of abuse. I suppose we all know that, and when we are on the outside looking into someone's elses fight with an abusive relationship, we find it easy to give advice and say what "we" would do if we ( Read more... )

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I love you raquita_h November 14 2005, 15:00:09 UTC

I know where you are and it is not a statement of your strength - at least in a negative way, I have been where you are and when it is your time you will move. It took me four years to get where you are now, and another two to leave and a extra year of back and fourth and second guessing. It takes strength to stay - whether people admit it or not, whether we want to admit it or not, and you have to gather the courage you will need when you do move. That is not something you just have - but what you do just have is people you are praying for you and ready to love you when ever you need. Call me if you need me. Number is the same. Shoulder is here.

Re: I love you blubreeze November 14 2005, 15:09:47 UTC

Thank you for your love and your support and your prayers. Hearing your voice right now will bring on more tears, because I will actually be able to "hear" your love and support. Just know that I love you too, and we will talk soon. *hug*

*big long holding hug* delrica November 14 2005, 15:22:41 UTC

it's not just what you go through in the moment that makes you strong or makes you have great character...it's also how you rise above things.

you will rise, my lil phoenix...even if i spelled it wrong. just know if you need to talk, my phone is always on (and usually powered up) and i'll always have an open ear for you.

love you mamma

Re: *big long holding hug* blubreeze November 17 2005, 16:12:16 UTC

Thank you so much sis. Talking is hard right now. I keep going over and over and over things in my head. But I did make it to work this morning without crying....that's a start. *half smile*

You know I appreciate you. Love you too girl.

Sometimes.....you just never know.... mz_humminbyrd November 14 2005, 16:14:24 UTC

pick up the phone.....

Re: Sometimes.....you just never know.... blubreeze November 17 2005, 16:13:55 UTC

Thank you for everything you said to me. You words still ring in my head. You are appreciated. Love you.

new_birth November 14 2005, 23:45:27 UTC

No judging...just a great big hug

blubreeze November 17 2005, 16:14:49 UTC

That is EXACTLY what I need! Thank you.

You do know that "we" will get through this, right? *big hug*