My disclaimer: While I don't know how highly you value my opinion or want to hear it at all, as we are not the closest people in the whole world, I'm going to chime in here because I know you well enough that I feel like I can voice my opinion here.
My opinion: I agree with Jon (although I did not watch the link, so I may not agree with that) and have seen too many people I know having way too many kids recently. On top of being in a relationship for a very short period of time, there are larger cultural implications to this since we live in a society already plagued by over population.
But as that is my opinion (and one which I can't imagine changing your mind now), please realize I am here to help any way I can. I'm not sure what I can do, but damned if I won't do it to the best of my ability.
I know you're not and I understand why. Frankly, that doesn't matter to me. Having kids was always part of my plan despite my own hypocritical views about modern society. While it's not necessarily the most opportune time right now, it's happening. But we're not going to discuss it further. If you're going to surround me with negativity, then I just don't have the time or energy for you and your dogmatic self righteous idealistic (and simultaneously self-deprecating) ideals because I have real important things to deal with and focus on. There's nothing to debate. It's happening, and it isn't bad for me, it's good for me.
I love you jon (and pete) but what's happening here is completely outside of your sphere of influence. I'm not your proselyte.
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its ultimately your choice and you can do what you want, and i will support you like i support tom and erin, but i am not ok with this.
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My opinion: I agree with Jon (although I did not watch the link, so I may not agree with that) and have seen too many people I know having way too many kids recently. On top of being in a relationship for a very short period of time, there are larger cultural implications to this since we live in a society already plagued by over population.
But as that is my opinion (and one which I can't imagine changing your mind now), please realize I am here to help any way I can. I'm not sure what I can do, but damned if I won't do it to the best of my ability.
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I love you jon (and pete) but what's happening here is completely outside of your sphere of influence. I'm not your proselyte.
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