Re: This isn't about you...blueborzoiJanuary 19 2007, 16:46:50 UTC
It may be that somebody thinks you are beautiful and merciless, however, that has little to do with me or my situation.
So, it begs the question, How did you think telling me would be in any way helpful or useful?
I'm working real hard at not being brutally honest to the poinr of cruelty here. It's okay if I'm brutal with myself, but it rarely helps others for me to hold them to my standards.
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It seems to me that you are not so much merciless and simply thoughtless and self-centered. It seems to go with youth and enthusiasm and general lack of experience. When you're looking at 35 you'll probably see people acting like you and you'll shake your head.
As for beauty, it is in the eyes of the beholder. You simply aren't my type, so I refuse to make a qualitative analysis of your appearance.
ah. well my previous comment stands. i might add that unconditional love and a desire to heal your family are good noble things to have, desire and to strive for; but the choice to put your life on hold because your end goal is dependent on the choices and actions of another is not the only course of action available. and that part of it is in fact a choice; emotion and intellect are separate animals for a reason.
i am happy for you if changes have occurred which will facilitate your daughter having her mother in her life in some facet.
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i've been called that before.....
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Seen the painting?
Met my estranged wife?
--perhaps such knowledge would help?
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and i've heard of your estranged wife...
i was just stating a fact
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So, it begs the question, How did you think telling me would be in any way helpful or useful?
I'm working real hard at not being brutally honest to the poinr of cruelty here. It's okay if I'm brutal with myself, but it rarely helps others for me to hold them to my standards.
Here goes...
It seems to me that you are not so much merciless and simply thoughtless and self-centered. It seems to go with youth and enthusiasm and general lack of experience. When you're looking at 35 you'll probably see people acting like you and you'll shake your head.
As for beauty, it is in the eyes of the beholder. You simply aren't my type, so I refuse to make a qualitative analysis of your appearance.
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i am happy for you if changes have occurred which will facilitate your daughter having her mother in her life in some facet.
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