if you make sex just sex then it will never mean anything when you do meet someone that gives you that googly feeling. it will just be one of those things you've done with tons of other people for no other reason besides that it made you feel good.. but not mentally or emotionally, just physically. that's like getting a massage... anyone can do it. at least your friends have special qualities like having good senses of humor, caring about your feelings, etc that make you feel good. and if you let sex become one of those things like a massage, that anyone can please you with, then its importance some day will totally be lost.. and basically you will be doomed to just having friends and sex.. as totally seperate entities.. and not a best friend (boyfriend) who shares sex with you in a way that only he can. ugh, i don't know if this is making any sense... lol. i'm done with my morals lecture for now.
hah it made sense for the first half..and then I think all of the 'sex's started to overwhelm me. I didn't mean that I don't care who I have sex with, I just don't care if I'm dating the person I sleep with. I'm obliviously still going to be very picky about who I have sex with because I still want it to be someone that I can trust and also feel comfortable with, and you know how I don't trust that many people. There's just far too many people that are way too unstable, relationship wise. so basically I'm not going to be getting much sex anyways. which is gay. but that's what vibrators are for right?hah
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I didn't mean that I don't care who I have sex with, I just don't care if I'm dating the person I sleep with. I'm obliviously still going to be very picky about who I have sex with because I still want it to be someone that I can trust and also feel comfortable with, and you know how I don't trust that many people. There's just far too many people that are way too unstable, relationship wise.
so basically I'm not going to be getting much sex anyways. which is gay. but that's what vibrators are for right?hah
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