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Jun 21, 2005 11:39

Alright, so I didn't mean the things that I said in that post. It was extremely harsh and rude of me to do that, and I am sorry about that. Basically, I am going to keep my opinions on this matter to myself and just pray that the proper decisions are made to protect that child. Abortion is not a matter that should be taken lightly.

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Abortion anonymous June 24 2005, 02:29:07 UTC

You are so right that abortion is not to be taken lightly. It's one of the "big" issues we have to decide about as we grow into adulthood. What I know is that it would be very difficult for me to make a decision to end a pregnancy unless there was a serious medical condition involved. Even then, it would be an agonizing decision. I do believe, however, that I don't have the right to decide for others. I guess that comes from my belief that I really don't know all there is to know about God and the universe and what God wants us to do in various situations. I like what you said about praying and trusting God to take care of this. That comes from realizing that someone higher than we is in charge of things. I am proud that you seem to understand a higher power at such a young age!
Love from Your Biggest Fan in PA!

Re: Abortion bluemunky June 25 2005, 03:43:30 UTC

Yeah, just so you are wondering, it's not me that was considering the abortion... Don't worry.

Re: Abortion anonymous June 28 2005, 13:05:33 UTC

It never even entered my mind that it was you. I have no worries because I know who you are and how you are, and I am very proud to be your family member! It was wonderful to see you and wasted kisses yesterday. It really made the day for the three of us!

By the way, I don't think kisses should ever be wasted. I'm not sure whose concept that is, but it's kind of stupid!

Love from YBF in PA!

xwasted_kissx June 24 2005, 14:20:55 UTC

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amboozled June 25 2005, 04:11:35 UTC

Seeing as how my in laws wanted me to have an abortion and tried to push it on me and Kev, I get really weird about abortion. But I do agree with you Kelly. It's something that should be completely thought out. The thing is people don't understand the emotional pain it causes when you have an abortion. If someone isn't very stable to begin with, then they decide to have it done.... 75% of the women who have abortions end up suicidal or extremely depressed afterwards. Hopefully your friend thinks about the consequences of abortion as much as the consequences of having the child.

bluemunky June 25 2005, 19:52:07 UTC

I couldn't agree with you more. (By the way, I don't think I've congratulated you yet.) I used to be kind of wishy washy on the pro-choice issue but then I saw how it personally affected someone, and I completely changed my views on it. I can't see the rationale behind getting rid of a child just because having that child would cause embarrassment to your family or inconveniencing a way of life. That, to me, is downright selfish and wrong. But hey, that's why God gives everyone the freedom to make their own minds up.

amboozled June 25 2005, 21:32:43 UTC

See my views are the same. Thing is one of my really good friends is going to have an abortion soon. I talked to her about it and told her it's not going to be easy if she does it. I didn't try to talk her out of it, just let her know it's not a simple thing like going to the store and then it's done. It's going to weigh on her mind for a long long time. She thinks she understands that but people never know how things will effect them until after they do it. Unfortunately though, she actually does have good reason... So there's not much I can do to change her mind. Hopefully she can handle it. Oh and thanks for the congrats. :) You should see how big my tummy's getting. I'm not a toothpick anymore! LOL!!!!