Comments | bluepolystyrene: You've lost that lovin feeling

bluepolystyrene

You've lost that lovin feeling

Jul 29, 2006 08:37

It's gone. I have no room left in me to love Tim anymore. I almost broke up with him yesterday, but I just didn't have the heart to do it. The poor guy is going through so much right now, and I don't want to be the final straw, you know? The thing that pushes him over the edge. Its been fucking hard though. I hate having to sit and endure more and ( Read more... )

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My unwanted two cents _feisty_ July 30 2006, 08:14:32 UTC

Let us begin at the beginning. Don't make him break up with you, because it's too much of a cop out. I would say that you should tell him that your heart isn't in it, but don't tell him about anyone else if he doesn't know because the time isn't right for any of that. It will be like kicking him when he's down. Just be as calm about it as you possibly can and let him down easy, as if it's that easy.

I wish you would have just been honest with me. I figured something like that was probably going on financially, but I wouldn't have been pissed if you had come and talked to me about it. Just let me know where you stand on the whole situation and we can talk about it if you want to. And we can see each other before you pay me if you want. I'm not going to like hold this against you or anything. I understand what it's like to be in a pinch, just tell me about it next time instead of disappearing and it won't be a problem.

Re: My unwanted two cents bluepolystyrene July 30 2006, 18:29:12 UTC

LoL your two cent wasn't unwanted. And I am really sorry about all of that. I'm probably going to have a bit of free time on my hands soon, so we'll get together and talk about it or whatever.

And I know telling him those things would be a total cop out. I don't think I could do it anyway. He's already down so far that breaking up with him is going to plenty for him to try and deal with.

Re: My unwanted two cents _feisty_ July 30 2006, 21:39:03 UTC

just give me a call sometime, or post a response in my lj since i'll probably respond faster to that, and we'll get together. my schedule is pretty flexible and i stay up til all hours of the night, so whenever is pretty much good with me.

what's wrong with him?

resistoptimism July 30 2006, 16:04:16 UTC

i agree with you.. i dont think telling him you've been with other guys is a good idea... and especially if your going to break up with him, there is no reason for him to know, it would just hurt him more...
ima call you today, cuz im gonna be at my parents later...

_feisty_ August 1 2006, 18:00:35 UTC

Alright, still bored. You should post more. I need something to do online, so I'm trying to convince everyone to post multiple times a day so that I can have something to do. Keep us updated on this situation, and any others. You should call me sometime, or email me or something, that way we can get together if you want to.

Oh, and you never told me what was wrong with Tim.