sigh

[bluestardusteye]

no matter what i try to do, or how i try to do it, or however accidentally something happened, i can't win. the next howevermanyyearsofmylife are just going to be laced with stress i don't need thanks to the woman who gave birth to the man i'm marrying in less than 5 months. i swear, sometimes i just want to yell at her and tell her a thousand

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[anonymous]

She seems pushy. And if she is pushing, you need to push back. Its your wedding. She presumably already had her own wedding. And if she's oblivious to other people's feelings to begin with, being the bigger person and keeping quiet will only allow her behavior to dictate the situation and allow her feelings to precede and influence everything. And what privilege should her feelings have over everyone else's, especially yours? She doesn't sound like a mind reader, or intuitive, and actually sounds huge selfish, to not care or understand that her behavior is not only argumentative, but superfluous and ultimately wasteful of her time and yours, and then of course, hurtful in the process. People like that are so draining, resentfully so, because of the extra effort it takes to deal with them that is intended for people who appreciate and deserve it and for who it contributes to the growth of your relationship. And Luke is not the only human she gave birth to. There will be many situations, and most of them will never be as tangible as a

[anonymous]

She seems pushy. And if she is pushing, you need to push back. Its your wedding. She presumably already had her own wedding. And if she's oblivious to other people's feelings to begin with, being the bigger person and keeping quiet will only allow her behavior to dictate the situation and allow her feelings to precede and influence everything. And what privilege should her feelings have over everyone else's, especially yours? She doesn't sound like a mind reader, or intuitive, and actually sounds hugely selfish, to not care or understand that her behavior is not only argumentative, but superfluous and ultimately wasteful of her time and yours, and then of course, hurtful in the process. People like that are so draining, resentfully so, because of the extra effort it takes to deal with them that is intended for people who appreciate and deserve it and for who it contributes to the growth of your relationship. And Luke is not the only human she gave birth to. There will be many situations, and most of them will never be as tangible as