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[blueswirlingsky]

So I was looking forward to summer because Jeff and I would be together. I don't know what happened to us, but things aren't the same anymore. I want to blame it on him, but he hasn't changed really, except for maybe not being as attentive and sweet. Thats the problem though. All year long, he hung out with exactly the same guys he hung out with in

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[supermegaglossy]

marina, i know EXACTLY how you feel. and no, we should not be expected to be with the first long-term person forever. for some reason, serious relationships are getting more and more common at a young age. you are in college now, and a whole new world of opportunity has opened. you've loved and been loved, but maybe that person that was loving and being loved needs a change in scenery. people change dramatically when they are put in a "new" environment. there is too much emphasis in my opinion on the past and future, and not enough on the present. so girl, don't worry, your thoughts aren't abnormal. i don't want to tell you to do something because i really don't know your relationship, but sometimes, it's not a bad thing to just get up and move on. just hope you're happy :) hope you're having a great summer too!!

i heart you... :)

[elt03c]

marina
maybe you and jeff have grown apart.
you are a strong, quasi-independant woman, and maybe you are not the same marina that you were in high school.
i take you to the AA prayer
"god, (this sounds so funny coming out of me)
grant me the Serenity
to accept the things I can not change...Courage to change the things I can and Wisdom to know the difference"
i love that... tehehe
hell Marina, you're not the same person i met at the begining of fall semester.

change is scarry...but good.
(pardon my foul punctuation and grammar)

[laurraloo]

Marina... you and Jeff have had this sort of problem for awhile now. That he focuses his attention on things like halo and the high school guys. I think attention is important in a relationship, and not just for the attention from the guy to the girl, but both ways! And you told me some things about Jeff and Halo and Chapelles show and all that stuff, that I personally wouldn't want to be put second to, you know? I know you are so smart and you are always thinking of yourself. And in a situation like this, you have to think of yourself first. Relationships come and go, you know?

I miss you! I'm excited to be your roomie next year :D Call me if you need anything, okay? I love youuuuuuuuu!

[laurraloo]

OH! soon Harry potter comes out, and all your worries will soon be past you :) you should try to come to naples, cause I'm going ot have a harry potter party after the movie comes out!!!!!! :D