:o) i didnt think so either! turns out it wasnt that i didnt want kids, i just hadnt been with anyone i considered suitable enough to be a father yet. it was mostly a matter of finding someone whose parenting ideas/style agreed with mine. luckily jason is awesome, and we have alot of the same ideas about what we will/will not let our kids do. turns out i want very much to have a baby. which is kinda cool, seeing as how i always assumed that was one part of growing up i would miss out on. we're gonna start trying to have one possibly next year. he's out of the navy in jan, so whenever we get settled and feel ready after that. i'm excited!
Well, good for you Jamie. I can tell you, even under the worst circumstances, parenthood is an invaluable life experience. Creating life. The most rewarding thing you can do, along with the most genuine love you'll ever feel. I know now that Tanya was NOT the ideal candidate for childbirth, but there is no doubt in my mind about the love between Jadyn & I. You're a very compassionate person, I always knew that much. And watching from the outside at how you and Jason are as a couple, well, children seem like a good fit, once you set your roots a bit ;o)
So, I'm happy for you because honestly, I even worried that you might miss out on this; if only because it didn't fit in the life you had before.
Best of luck with that!
P.S. were you still thinking of logan and hunter as boys names? :OP
lol it didnt fit with my life only coz of the people in it really. i would never choose to have children with someone who would be a shabby dad just to have them. my urge isnt that strong i guess. but i guess its the fact that, i cant picture jason living his whole life not making little mini jasons. i feel like i would be depriving the female gender, and also i feel like it would be a waste of his abilities to pass down his awesomeness to munchkins. like...i know he'd be fine if we dont have kids and it was always just us, and i'd be fine, but i'd always feel like he would have made such a great father. and hopefully i make a good mommy.
and not sure on names. logan is out, coz his best friend tre named his kid that. Hunter and Tucker are in debate, but also Jackson. for girls i like Teagan, Shea, and Jacey. but we'll see. that, like everything i decide, changes minute to minute.
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2. be a mother.
WOW.
Never thought you'd cave in on THAT one!
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So, I'm happy for you because honestly, I even worried that you might miss out on this; if only because it didn't fit in the life you had before.
Best of luck with that!
P.S. were you still thinking of logan and hunter as boys names? :OP
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and not sure on names. logan is out, coz his best friend tre named his kid that. Hunter and Tucker are in debate, but also Jackson. for girls i like Teagan, Shea, and Jacey. but we'll see. that, like everything i decide, changes minute to minute.
thanks for the well wishes :o)
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