True Colors.

[blurry_demons]

Evidently there have been some people talking shit behind Mine an My Wife's backs

Comments

Face to face

[tiropitakia]

I think letters do say things to your faces, and sometimes it's better to talk about things before saying them. That might just be me, but you know how sometimes if you do something in the heat of the moment, it conveys a meaning you really didn't want. Sometimes it's better to mull things over, swallow pride, and think about what really matters the most. Sometimes it's taking a stand, sometimes it's saving a friendship.

I am *assuming* that email was referring to the one I sent, but to be honest I can't tell, because no one replied to the one I sent. No one said a thing in response--to my face. So I might be wrong; that would be nice.

There is no hatred here, and there never was. This whole thing just makes me very sad, and I'm not just referring to recent events.

I think it's important to protect people you love, and that it's natural to want to stop them from being hurt. We just have to be careful how we treat others in that process.

Re: Face to face

[sailor_moonbeam]

an unsigned, typed letter is a cowardly way to address such an issue. and if she had issues, she should have said something back in july when i asked her to be in the wedding. i got the letter about a month before i made the decision to clean out my lists (and she was not the only person or group i removed....i decreased by about half in all places), and this came after looking through our photos and realizing that someone i thought was still close enough to ask to be in the wedding was actually not, which just cheapens the acceptance and the memory of her in the wedding. ergo, this was not, by any stretch at all, done in the heat of the moment. she made the first stand and i made a decision based upon it after thinking it through.

i didn't respond to u before this because i wanted to be sure i worded it correctly. but since u bring it up, here u go:
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"Why keep me as a friend? You haven't hung out with me since Cam and I broke up, no matter how hard I tried to stay friends, no matter how much time

Re: Face to face

[blurry_demons]

And lets not forget about our wedding.

Adge wasn't there, but Mrs. Crohns was.
She introduced herself as 'Hi I have Crohns'

We HAVE family members who have Crohns and were offended because they thought she was making a mockery of people with Crohns.

I understand that Crohns sucks and its not easy to deal with, but you can either live your life with the disease or you can let the disease live your life for you.

Re: Face to face

[bob_is_great]

Ok first off Both of you are my friends. Secondly, both of you have been sisters to me. I called you not because Adge wanted me to, I called because I am worried that two of my best friends are at each others throats. Both of you have had a hard rap in life. I would fully stat that your life has been worse. But instead of fighting with each other, you should be able to use that as one of the reason why you are friends. I know that many people are going see this, and I dont care. Both of you are still my sisters, but please talk to each other. And not through letters or online. Talk face to face or at least on the phone and each take time to hear what the other person is trying to say. I wont choose sides because that isnt fair to either of you. Just talk to each other. I have a show tonight, but I will try and call later.