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I've just found out my friend is going to die from his heart disease. I can't tell you who, because he is coming to my party and he doesn't want to see pity. But he may die before June. I want to cry, I'm trying not to, but I want to. I probably won't know when he dies, his parents don't know who I am. I'll just notice when I stop hearing from
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Blah, I typed up a nice long response to this and LJ ate it. *Kicks computer*
Basically, there is nothing you can do but be there for him. I know from personal experience how hard it is to accept that and the gross injustice of it all, but it's all you can do. But don't worry about crying about it or feeling angry at the world - it's all part of the normal processes of greiving and accepting it. Also, don't worry about saying something cheesy. If it's important to you to say it, then you'll always regret it if you don't. I always think that things become clichés because they come from things and emotions that nearly everyone experiences.
I'm sorry. *Huge hugs*
Ona
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