Love Defined

[bmitwentyone]

‘…we are incapable of loving another unless we love ourselves, just as we are incapable of teaching our children self-discipline unless we ourselves are self-disciplined

Comments

[badnomad]

i used to say love is hard work, but the author puts it more nicely - love is effortful. it's a great book - it was from here i learn to tell apart "i love you" and "i'm in love with you"

[bmitwentyone]

yeap..

i have learn a lot from the book too.. Love is effortful, esp when the 'feeling' has faded...

how r u? haven seen u for ages!

[badnomad]

velly busy with work! and you? are u still near me? I still have the dvd u lent me u know ... how to return to u?

[bmitwentyone]

the dvd ya.. em.. dun mind banking in 20 bucks to me and u can keep that.. haha =)