Comments | bobbiejo2003: Cheating...?

bobbiejo2003

Cheating...?

Jan 22, 2004 10:31

When you're in a relationship with someone, what is cheating? What are the boundaries between friendly flirting and cheating on your significant other? These questions have been raised recently between Eric and I because some stuff happened with me and a close friend that I have never considered romantic in any way. But Eric saw it as me cheating ( Read more... )

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Cheating..... n211cr January 23 2004, 03:44:08 UTC

Hey, I seen this a little earlier today, and well I thought about writing something but I thought I would wait til I was a little more umm.....thursdayified....so yeah....for advice ( ... )

anonymous January 28 2004, 01:27:05 UTC

To put it into better context, we went to the club and she did something that she said she would consider cheating with a couple of friends of hers and I didn't say anything until we got home. Then I made up a story about me and another girl that she knows and she knows we used to like each other but we're clearly just friends now. well any way in this story we did the say thing she did with the other guys and she got pissed. I don't necessarily consider it cheating but she does. So here is the a better question... Do you follow your own rules of cheating or your mates, and if you follow your mates rules does that make you a hypocrite? It is all in the past anyway.

Eric

ah, cheating... the bane of all relationships lenamoster January 28 2004, 04:27:21 UTC

i would consider a LOT of things cheating. it all starts with the mindset though, i think. i don't even really look at guys now and think "hey, he's kinda cute." and i know if i was really attracted to a guy, i would sit and question my feelings about the relationship i'm in. cause if i'm in a relationship, it is because i really like the one i'm with. so, if i am "daydreaming" about somebody else, what's the point of remaining in the relationship? kinda harsh, and not really cheating exactly, but still something to ponder over. i consider anything above harmless flirting to be cheating. grabbing of the "PERSONAL" areas (not butt, or even boobies, if its all in fun) is a definite no-no. anything over kissing i consider as well, other than like pecks on the cheek and such. that's why i don't play games like spin the bottle, etc... sure its just a game, but you can still hurt your person's feelings. so why even chance it? so, REALLY consider your actions, and if they would hurt your person, it might not be cheating, but you still ( ... )