"I wanna run away/Never say goodbye"

[bohemianideals]

My parents are so horrible. I know that they mean well, but they keep pestering me about how I spend my time with Jason, getting onto us for just laying on bed together. And then my mom keeps saying 'Just, keep a level head', as if she expects me to be some little whore and just sleep with my boyfriend after only going out with him for four months

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[cheeze_it]

It's not running away if you're coming home.

And it's not that they don't trust you, it's that you're nearly gone and they will have little to no control over you anymore. They're having a difficult time with you leaving because you're their only child and you're almost all grown up and won't need them any more. They do want to make sure you don't get into a bad situation and a guy-girl combination is a sort of pre-requisite of what sorts of situations they don't want you in.

Do not do something to piss off your mother. That will only hurt you in the end. If you're going to rebel, do it in small ways that they don't notice so you get to know you're doing something right under their nose and they don't realize it. Of course, I'm not necessarily condoning rebellion, I'm just saying if you have to, don't go over the top. If you go over the top things will just get worse.

I love you and I don't want anything bad to happen to you, situation/guy wise AND parent wise. *hug*

[bohemianideals]

^^ *hugs back* Thanks Kate. Sorry for dumping my problems onto you *shoulders them all again*

[cheeze_it]

Hell no, don't you shoulder them again. What are friends for if not to share the shouldering of problems? I give you mine, you give me yours and we share them. That's what we do.

That, and make my bed move six inches from the wall...^^

[bohemianideals]

Yeah, but you have enough to handle for the moment. *puts problems in little suitcase that rolls on wheels behind you* ^^

Yeah, but I didn't get to help you move the bed 6 inches today... *is sad*