Potential

[boldmoves]

I keep having dreams in which all of the unresolved issues that have plagued me over the past month have been resolved. I've written the emails I need to, had the conversations that continually get put off, finished the cleaning I want to do, made the appointments that need to be made. In short, I dream regularly that I am an adult. Instead of

Comments

[zarfmouse]

Proposal: We both start keeping daily todo lists as per my time management training and every wednesday when we have brunch, we both check in with each other on how we're doing with that task and keep each other accountable to it.

I've totally fallen off the wagon with my time management and I would love to have a regular time where I'm accountable to someone for it. Where I can talk to someone about having fallen behind or where I can be excited with someone when I'm on top of things.

[boldmoves]

I'm totally excited about both lists and accountability. Let's do it.

[boldmoves]

We should have sushi when I get back from Oakland! I really want to hear about the gala. And congrats on the grant--that's super hot!

[hal2814jordan]

Remember driving in the car toward Don's play, and I told you months ago that this disparity between trying to be an adult and what you feel is kinda of absurd. Doing all these things and making all these hard or difficult decisions IS being an adult and clearly that is what you are doing. What you are doing is making decisions and choices that will put you in a better position to succeed in whatever you end up doing. That is all you can do, and are doing. My opinion on that matter and your decisions and what you need to do still hasn't changed since when I told you that a while ago, even as other things have.